If your sex drive is higher than his, maybe he rejects both oral and classic sex because he would have to be implied into answering to your moves, working on it and maybe, just maybe he feels he is not that good in bed or he doesn't want to disappoint you. You know, our ego is sky high sometimes and when it comes down to bed reputation, maybe he feels he's not that good.
I bet he enjoys your heads, but he rejects sometimes because "one hand washes the other" and he lacks confidence to "perform your standards".
My advice? Go and talk to him. Sit down and have a chat and if he's introvert, take it easy, it's very hard to talk about these issues!0 0 0 0Is this about a work schedule? There has to be more to the story.
And you said, 'whenever' but later said he enjoys them - so which is it?0 0 0 0He does split shifts so possibly. He does say yes sometimes
Women simply just cannot stand rejection. Am I right? :)
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If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't want to. Please respect that.
0 0 0 0He might not enjoy then as much as you think he does
0 0 0 0He's been telling all his friends they're amazing blowjobs though
Cause men do that to seem cool
No guy is gonna tell his friends his chick can't give good oral. If it was amazing he'd ask for it all the time
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2 21Well, some guys don't like it.
But more importantly we're not *always* in the mood for one...0 1 0 0Either he just doesn't like them,
He doesn't like how you do them,
Or he's not in the mood a lot.0 0 0 0He's an idiot? Or he's caught an STI
0 1 0 0Maybe he just isn't in the mood. Apparently it happens
0 0 0 0Blowjob can be a real tease for a guy,
0 0 0 0He may not be into getting oral sex really hard to say.
0 0 0 0Maybe he's faking it? I was with a girl once who told me that she had been with 20+ guys and had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship. I find that incredibly hard to believe, because that woman just straight up didn't know how to suck a cock, or even french kiss properly. There's just no way that you could be with the same dude for 6 years, and he never told you how to suck on him properly. I faked pleasure simply so I didn't hurt her feelings.
0 0 0 0Maybe you are not as good as you think or more likely he is worried about his hygiene.
1 0 0 0He must be crazy to turn down your offering. I wouldn't turn away from your excellent skills
0 0 0 0Some guys don't like it
0 1 0 0How sad to think it's true. I'm not shy about giving and receiving
idiot
0 0 0 0Agreed because it feels so good
Can you not ask him instead of a whole community that does not know him nor you?
By the way, i would love a partner like you.0 0 0 0He is using sex as a weapon against you... like many women do to men lol
0 0 0 0Why you asking, just do it! But who would ever refuse one? Maybe he gay!
0 0 0 1Is he in having sex with you or does he also turn down sex?
Is your sex drive higher than his?0 0 0 0He does turn down sex sometimes and yes it's higher
Hmm so maybe it's not because of the blowjob in particular. He might not be in the mood. Still I would turn it down but that's maybe just me
It could be that he just doesn't like them. I don't much like getting them. But when I have got one it looked like I was enjoying it.
0 0 0 0He's not much into freaky sex
0 0 0 0your boyfriend is a big idiot !!!
0 0 0 0Have you tried asking him that question?
0 0 0 0He says sometimes he's not in the mood
So then he is not in the mood... as he says... U need to respect that Girl...
he probably has a problem with his genital.
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