My boyfriend turns down my blowjobs?

Whenever i ask to give him a blowjob he'll say "no, i'm going to sleep" or "no, not now". I've never had a guy turn down a blowjob before. Whenever i give him one he seems to really enjoy them so i don't know why?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If your sex drive is higher than his, maybe he rejects both oral and classic sex because he would have to be implied into answering to your moves, working on it and maybe, just maybe he feels he is not that good in bed or he doesn't want to disappoint you. You know, our ego is sky high sometimes and when it comes down to bed reputation, maybe he feels he's not that good.
    I bet he enjoys your heads, but he rejects sometimes because "one hand washes the other" and he lacks confidence to "perform your standards".

    My advice? Go and talk to him. Sit down and have a chat and if he's introvert, take it easy, it's very hard to talk about these issues!

  • Is this about a work schedule? There has to be more to the story.
    And you said, 'whenever' but later said he enjoys them - so which is it?

    • He does split shifts so possibly. He does say yes sometimes

    • Women simply just cannot stand rejection. Am I right? :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't want to. Please respect that.

  • He might not enjoy then as much as you think he does

    • He's been telling all his friends they're amazing blowjobs though

    • Cause men do that to seem cool

    • No guy is gonna tell his friends his chick can't give good oral. If it was amazing he'd ask for it all the time

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  • Well, some guys don't like it.
    But more importantly we're not *always* in the mood for one...

  • Either he just doesn't like them,
    He doesn't like how you do them,
    Or he's not in the mood a lot.

  • He's an idiot? Or he's caught an STI

  • He may not be into getting oral sex really hard to say.

  • Maybe he just isn't in the mood. Apparently it happens

  • Blowjob can be a real tease for a guy,

  • Maybe he's faking it? I was with a girl once who told me that she had been with 20+ guys and had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship. I find that incredibly hard to believe, because that woman just straight up didn't know how to suck a cock, or even french kiss properly. There's just no way that you could be with the same dude for 6 years, and he never told you how to suck on him properly. I faked pleasure simply so I didn't hurt her feelings.

  • Maybe you are not as good as you think or more likely he is worried about his hygiene.

  • He must be crazy to turn down your offering. I wouldn't turn away from your excellent skills

  • Some guys don't like it

    • How sad to think it's true. I'm not shy about giving and receiving

  • idiot

    • Agreed because it feels so good

  • Can you not ask him instead of a whole community that does not know him nor you?

    By the way, i would love a partner like you.

  • He is using sex as a weapon against you... like many women do to men lol

  • Why you asking, just do it! But who would ever refuse one? Maybe he gay!

  • Is he in having sex with you or does he also turn down sex?
    Is your sex drive higher than his?

    • He does turn down sex sometimes and yes it's higher

    • Hmm so maybe it's not because of the blowjob in particular. He might not be in the mood. Still I would turn it down but that's maybe just me

  • It could be that he just doesn't like them. I don't much like getting them. But when I have got one it looked like I was enjoying it.

  • He's not much into freaky sex

  • your boyfriend is a big idiot !!!

  • Have you tried asking him that question?

    • He says sometimes he's not in the mood

    • So then he is not in the mood... as he says... U need to respect that Girl...

  • he probably has a problem with his genital.

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