My boyfriend want a threesome but I said no because I dont like sharing and im insecure but he keep asking. What should I do?

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  • Keep doing what you're doing there's nothing wrong with you feeling the way that you feel

    And all he's doing is trying to manipulate you into saying yes so that way he can have sex with somebody else with your permission if it's something you don't believe in don't do it

    And maybe he should have done that before he decided to start dating you

    Don't start feeling guilty or taking the heat or the blame for something that you believe in that's what he's trying to do don't do that if he can't get over it then maybe he should just move on I mean you have morals values and ethics and he needs to understand that and you also don't want somebody touching your guy he needs to understand that and maybe if it was turned around he might feel the same way

Most Helpful Guy

  • There is that urban myth where girlfriend says yes and offers to organize but the boyfriend discovers it is a MFM threesome.

    I'd suggest get a new boyfriend. A girlfriend did broach it to me and I would have been better off dumping her on the spot because I subsequently found she didn't have a wholesome view of relationships. Red Flag.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't do it if you're not into it or you if you feel that this might damage your relationship. I've seen more couples breaking up after a threesome than staying together or improving their relationship. He should also respect your wishes. Do not feel pressured and don't do anything you're not interested in doing.

  • No he is a jerk and huge red flag so go on break up with him!

    He will force you into this!

    My man and I couples share but to many force Thier gfs into it and wonder why they leave!

    I'm all for it but only if your okay with it. We are trying to get pregnant again

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Dump him. He just wants to legitimise cheating!

  • Tell him to accept your decision or leave.

  • Dump him.

  • Tell your boyfriend ok & you’ll ask one of your sexy friends. Invite a dude & really piss off your boyfriend to the point where he will never want a threesome again.

  • Get a new boyfriend.

  • but, but, but boundaries are "abusive"

  • Tell him to stop asking. Or end it and date someone else.

  • break up wit the mf

  • He should respect your opinion

  • Get him two inflatable girlfriends.

    And look out for a more developed man?

  • Dump him. If he won't take no for an answer he obviously has no respect for you

  • Continue saying "no." You're allowed to have boundaries.

  • Tell him you will never consent to it and to stop asking for it.

  • Dump his ass. He's not going to change his fantasy

  • It is your body and it is your choice. If you are uncomfortable do not do it. Sure every young guy probably dreams of a threesome but he should not push you into it. How is your sex life with him otherwise? Maybe increase the frequency? What do you think?

  • Dump him.

  • Yeah if you don’t want to you should not give in. If he keeps pressuring you you might have to break up with before he cheats.

  • Stick to your guns, there's no need for a threesome in a relationship. If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. If he can't get it through his thick skull, then he might not be the one for you

  • Tell him. You don't want it and needs to stop asking. If he continues to, then it's considered sexual harassment

  • Break up with him. He doesn't respect you and sees you as a sex toy.

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