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Sexual Health My boyfriend wants a threesome?
Anonymous
Today my boyfriend asked me while we were in the middle of having sex that he wanted to have a threesome with me and my friend and he kept asking and saying oh you love me don’t you and you want to love me even more and trying to get me to get my friend to have a threesome with us and I just don’t know what to think of it? Like yeah I love him but why does he want a threesome with me and my friend like why doesn’t he just want me it’s getting me wondering if he actually loves me or is just using me now?
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 44Been there. he may think she's hot or just want a 3 some or possibly just thinks it's really hot to have his girlfriend share him with a friend. I've even wanted that when the friend wasn't attractive. Just so much fun.
So he wants to have sex with your friend.
Do not do it it's going to mess up a perfectly good thing the guy or girl going to fall in love with the other person it's going to ruin everything in some way shape or form
Well, just to check how he reacts, if I were you, I woudl do that.. I would ask him back in flirty way that I also want to have threesome. But with a guy... Then tell him that I think his XYZ friend is kinda hot! Then I would say that I am not comfortable having it with girl first but if we can explore it with guy, we can do it with girl!
The idea of a threesome turns a lot of guys on.
You should break up with him, that sort of emotional manipulation is disgusting.
Dump him
I don’t want to see another guys cock inside my girl.
I mean, i understand asking, but if he continues bugging you with it when you've made your discomfort clear.
Because he clearly respects you 🥺
Tell him right after you have a threesome with him and his friend. If he balks at that idea then you know he is just plain selfish and want to experience a very popular fantasy most men have. The way you describe him asking sounds very selfish. Rather than ask, he should consult you to see if your interested in sharing and if not then he should drop the subject. Nothing wrong in sharing fantasies but unless both are interested in exploring them then they stay as just fantasies.
ask your friend if she's been asked about it
I would definitely talk about it before hand and see what his intentions are and see how he acts about the topic before trying jt
If he loves you he wouldn't demand a three some. It's okay to ask about it.
Would you be okay in sharing him with another girl?
Give him a test. Ask him if he is willing to have a three some with one of his male friends.
Agree to it and when he shows up, y’all be waiting for him wearing strapons
Most people won’t understand this and it is complicated and hard to explain.
You need to find out. Threesomes can be tricky
Ty for the like
He said “if you truly love him” so don’t do it
tell him ok, but first he has to have a threesome with a guy, then you will have one with a girl
Just using you sweetheart.