My boyfriend wants a threesome with me and twin sister.. do I have the right to be upset?

We look alike so obviously he has no control over being attracted to her too right? Am I wrong? Or is he in the wrong?
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  • twins are quite different, at least some... look very similar, but distinct personality in my experience.

    He's wrong, he's a hormonal idiot and that is not loving... e. g. having your best interests in mind... it's selfishness. That you don't know that is concerning...

    It really depends what kind of people you are and your values. But if your sister gets pregnant by him, are you going to marry him and still love their child like your own? Will you all move to Utah and get married? Will he go after other women?

    This is stupidity... there's reasons for traditional values.

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  • Because this "matter" haven`t been discussed before, and just poped out like that, suggests a BIG impendiment in your relationship, which is in easy terms is"doomed", because he will become selfish and he will want all his fantasies come true, just for him... want to test him? Ask him you will like a 3 some with one of his mates, observe his reaction, then you can tell him, that You felt the same when he asked about you and your sister. So if i was you i would`ve "cut my losses" and let him be, rather to cut the "tree early" rather than let it grow, and you have to put it "down later" as it will be harder, after long time of, trust, lolyality, love, etc, etc...

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  • Absolutely! This is a big decision that impacts you both, and your boyfriend suggesting it without discussing it first is disrespectful. You have every right to be upset. It's important to talk openly and honestly about your comfort levels and boundaries before considering something like this. If a threesome isn't something you want, that's a perfectly valid answer.

  • Sounds like this is some kind of fantasy for him and it's damned creepy. Just because she LOOKS like you doesn't mean she's anything LIKE you as a person.

    Girl, get out of this relationship. Something's wrong with this guy. He's looking for cheap thrills. Don't let yourself or your sister be used in this way. He is SO wrong.

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  • He's using the TWO of 'you' to fulfill HIS fantasy... with you TWO as animate 'objects' and merely means-to-HIS-ends.
    Can he even last LONG ENOUGH to multiply satisfy just ONE of you?
    ... Yet alone BOTH of you...

    Test HIS randy 'resolve' and see if he'll let BOTH of you two sodomize HIM with a dildo, FIRST... while you're simultaneously getting him off manually~ (can you hear the crickets chirping?) ;)

  • She is not you. She has her own personality. She does not have the experiences with him that you have had. If that is not enough reason for him to have control over his feelings, then you should dump him now!

  • You absolutely have a right to be upset. It's disgusting that he even asked.

    Do what you want, but my advice is to split up. Chances are he'd be pisse dif you suggested a threesome with his twin brother, is he had one.

  • Seriously, you mean your EX boyfriend suggested this. That is the problem with EX Bfs….

  • easily have the right. why would he want to bring in THAT can of worms to open.

  • Frankly, it would be weird if you werent upset. Men who ask for threesomes are already more or less conceited but to ask you to engage in incest just because it's more convenient for him is outright narcissism.

  • DO NOT that is Incest type shit.

  • Neither of you is wrong. He asked. You can say no.

    If anyone is writing, it's you for judging him. He made himself vulnerable by asking. Do you want to be with someone you know intimately? Or do you want to be with someone who is afraid to tell you how they feel?

  • You always have the right to be upset. Whether being upset is justified or not is up to you, not others, especially not from a random group of users on G@G.

    He told you what he would like. You can always say No.

  • You have the right to be upset with him because he wants to be unfaithful to you.

  • Any threesome is unlikely to be a positive thing for your relationship. Consider what he's asking of you: have sex with your twin.

    I don't care if it's an identical twin, a fraternal twin of the same sex or your brother.

    There's something seriously fucked up with asking your girlfriend (or boyfriend) to get it on with someone you shared a uterus with.

  • Yes you have a right to be upset. A twin sister is still another girl.

    I think probably most men would like the concept of having sex with identical twins, so I think you should think it is not unexpected he would have that desire.

    Curious. Obviously you must like your boyfriend. Does that mean your twin likes him sexually too?

    Being a twin doesn't you are exactly alike in personality and what you like.

  • You may look alike but you have different personalities. Secondly a threesome almost always spells the beginning of the end of a relationship.

  • This is disgusting. You shouldn't do it if you don't want it.

  • I don't know it doesn't make much sense, I mean the great thing with a 3 some is you get variety, both girls look, act and feel different.. so that is not an option you are identical twins.

    Also it's hot when the girls play with each other, with kissing, sucking on boobs, going down on each other etc..

    So that's not an option for sisters unless your really kinky. Maybe that's what he is into? Maybe the incest turns him on maybe? Have you talked to him about it and what did he say?

  • Sounds like a dream come true for him

  • You have the right to be upset if you find it offensive. If you're not into that kind of thing he should accept your decision and not mention it again.

  • You are right for considering the fact that he might be attracted to her too cause y'all have the same face but he's wrong for suggesting such a perverted thing when he knows y'all are different people and have different minds, opinions, soul and feelings, you got the rights to be mad cause I don't agree with poly relations either and I don't believe a lover should be shared, not even with someone as close like your own sister, he's thinking with the wrong head and that can eventually cause him his relationship.

  • Totally understand you are twins so of course he could be attracted to her. If my wife had a twin I wouldn’t be able to help love her and think of my wife in that way too. But there is a line, it is not my wife and it is her sister so I would never ask that of you and he should not think that’s an option I am also very committed to my wife so that thought is cheating I don’t care if it is a twin. And yes you have the right to be upset about it but should talk it over with him

  • I'm a twin. Same problem/opportunity. We said no Fucking way but we both ended up fucking her at different times. 😂 Say no. It's gross, presumptuous, rude and guaranteed to send your relationship in the toilet. I think he's pretty sus tbh

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