My boyfriend wants me to give him anal with a strap on?

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So lately my boyfriend has asked me to fuck him in the ass with a strap on. Does this make his gay? Do any of you guys do the same?

gray_sailor · Accepted Answer

Homosexuality is determined by WHO you have sex with, not the acts performed. The act you described, anal sex with a strap on used by a woman on a man, is common enough to have its own name: pegging. This has come up on GaG before, here are some good posts:  Here's an article to read:

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don 't think your boyfriend wants the sensation of a cock as much as he wants to just be dominated, and taking it in from the behind is a very submissive position. It's not so much that he's attracted to penises as he just wants to experience a submissive position that would otherwise be impossible.

Chibbi · Accepted Answer

if he's not sexually attracted to guys then he is not gay. doesn't matter what he puts in his ass. and if I remember correctly what I've learned in school, then it should feel at least as good for the guys as for the girls because the prostate gets stimulated that way.

ClariceOwen23 · Accepted Answer

I've done this before. It's actually fun.

But to answer your question, no. Liking butt stuff and being gay are not related even a bit. Based on that logic, lesbians who use dildos are secretly straight.

ShaunaM95 · Accepted Answer

This doesn't make him gay at all. My ex boyfriend wanted the same thing and he's 100% straight. It would only be considered gay if your boyfriend wanted a guy to do it to him, not a girl.

AustinMan · Answer

It does NOT mean he's gay. Anal play is huge fun for both straight men and women. Do you enjoy anal play/anal sex?

NatashaAnnJames · Answer

Why would it make him Gay? Just means he likes his prostate played with Isn't this called pegging?

elric · Answer

Gay. Weird as fuck. Needs more testosterone in his diet

Closet_kinky · Answer

It absolutely doesn't make him gay. Maybe a tad submissive, though. Don't read too much into it.

BlackMac97 · Answer

Nope. He's secretly gay.

Accipiter · Answer

If a lesbian asked her girlfriend to fuck her with a strap-on, does that make her straight? Not a lot of guys are into pegging. But it's something I'd be willing to try

RainbowFanGirl · Answer

Gay is being attracted to the same sex. Doing butt stuff does not make him gay. If he is not attracted to men, he is not gay. The make g spot is really close to the anus, which is why he wants to experiment with you. I just think you should do it, it might be fun.

OrangeBoy · Answer

A gay is a person that can love a person from the same sex, it's different. It's a preference he have to have pleasure. No i did not made that ever.

Magister365 · Answer

I am totally straight, but, if my girl wanted to take me from behind with a strapon, I would let her, no arguments.

KidanisCortes · Answer

the amle G spot is in the ass sooo it doesn't nesesarily mean he's a homo

AngryHorny · Answer

He might be. gay or bisexual. I never heard of a straight guy wanting to do this.

MattyBoy2018 · Answer

Nothing is ever going up my ass. That boy is gay

abc--123 · Answer

Not gay if it's between a man and a woman

Terrell456 · Answer

Your boyfriend is gay.

jmmmfi2 · Answer

Yeah like extremely gay

Zoren · Answer

People need to understand the difference.
Gay man / straight female = attracted to masculinity
Gay woman / straight male = attracted to femininity

That's why a high percentage of straight men are attracted to transsexual women while gay men dislike them.

It has nothing to do with being attracted penises and vaginas.
If the case was different, a man having sex with a hairy big dude with a vagina between his legs would be considered straight.

conclusion: your boyfriend likes having something up his butt. That doesn't make him gay. He just likes having something up his butt. And it's completely normal.

Anonymous · Answer

The male g spot, is found through the ass. That's probably why he wants it. Many guys like g spot stimulation, just like women do, and women don't realize that the g spot for men, is found through the ass

Anonymous · Answer

He is bi-curious

Anonymous · Answer

I'm gay myself and I can easily say that I know more straight guys who like it up the butt. Believe it or not, anal sex is NOT common among gay guys. I don't like giving or receiving it, just like all of my exes.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't necessarily mean he is gay. I'm perfectly straight, and I'm rather fond of the idea as well. It'd for sure make him gay if he wanted a man to have anal sex with him. But a girl using a strap on? No, nothing gay about it.

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