My boyfriend wants me to give him BJ during my period what can be interepreted from this?

[Anonymous]

Guys we've been in relationship for a year. Recently we were talking about our future. And he said that whenever I get my period I should give him BJ. And I too asked him about helping me with household chores at least when I get my period. He seemed so uncomfortable like he didn't want to help me. He too said that he will try anal by tying up my legs and hands. I don't know what to interpret from this. Feels like sth off. Am I over reacting or overthinking?

[RoseySarah]

No wtf try try anal? Tie you up?

Like you like that or he ject can't stand Tom?

I'd break up cause he can't do something that simple? Imagine being married to his lazy ass!

My hubby goes above and beyond with my Tom. Getting me things... Extra sex cause heavens knows I need it and it helps my cramps... Using my toys for me...

Hugs treats doing more chores and getting me my needs from the store.

Your boyfriend wants to use you more during it when your hurting most! Monthly!

[Asker]

I too feel as you said. Wish I had my boyfriend just like your husband lucky girl 💕

[RoseySarah]

Thank you and keep looking he sounds like he has a lot of other issues... Aside from chores what else drives you nuts he needs to do or just to love you more without sex?

[Asker]

I feel there are lot more things that he does about which I really feel bad. He forces himself upon me and doesn't say sorry when I confront him. He once had said that it doesn't make any difference to him if I stay or go. He too said that I look average and I love him more than he does. When I asked him what do you like about me he replied I love him that's what he likes. He doesn't really adore me. When I see other couples I really feel jealous and wish he could love me like others.

[RoseySarah]

Run! I'd slap him and hurt him after telling me those things! Honestly believe them he won't care! Seen to many relationships where the guys were honest about that and the girls only believed them after being married!

[RoseySarah]

You should feel jealous he caress less for you and of course you want a healthy relationship but it won't be with him. No women will have a healthy relationship with him!

[MissBoogus]

Entirely depends on the context. Was he joking? Giving BJs during your period can kind of make sense, at least if you’re not comfortable having sex during it. Are you guys into bdsm or why else would he say that?

[Asker]

He was being serious and we r not into bdsm but he wants to try everything just like in porn movies

[MissBoogus]

Well if he makes you uncomfortable make sure you let him know

[Asker]

Definitely thank you 😊

[RoseySarah]

Make sure he cares you let him know! Not just dismisses you hate that idea

[B4851]

With the details I read I feel like there's red flags. I've known plenty of people who've ask for BJs during period, but being uncomfortable to help out with chores and only thinking about his pleasure, he seems selfish.

[Asker]

I feel so

[B4851]

Definitely seems like he wants a one sided relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah it seems like that

[B4851]

So have a straight forward conversation with him, and if you still feel uncomfortable, consider ending the relationship.

[Asker]

For sure 😊

[B4851]

Hopefully things work out, but either way I'd like to know. Hoping for the best for you.

[B4851]

Thanks for the mho. Hope you are doing alright.

[madhatters4]

i mean sex of some kind (e. g. oral) during a woman's period is normal and fair. it can go both ways too.

but the rest sounds really wrong, off, and selfishness from him.

[Asker]

I think the same

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[WhitneySnow]

That’s awful!

[ProbablyClueless]

That he wants a blow job but doesn't want to have sex with your bleeding vagina.

[DextroShade]

Sounds like he just wants to have sex without his dick looking like a murder weapon. As for the chores, if he works and you don't he shouldn't have to help you otherwise he should.

[Alex-Snow]

He is being a bit overbearing and demanding. It is your body and your choice to give him a bj. Maybe try a handjob instead... guys' love them also. How is ur sex life otherwise with him?

[jahaims]

I have a feeling you did a terrible job explaining the situation. Are you asking if he is shitty at dirty talk or threatening anal rape?

[CubaPirate]

Time to dump the asshole imao

[Anonymous]

Unless you too are into that sort of thing, or he too thinks you are, then I too think that he too is being unreasonable.