My boyfriend wants me to go down on him like his cock is candy?

Yet he is the opposite of excited when he goes down on me? Infact, the last time I asked him to go down on me he said he "wasn't drunk enough for that". So what do I do? Do I continue to go down on him with enthusiasm? Or stop and when he asks why explain to him that he's being totally unfair? Or?
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  • There is nothing more exciting for me then to go down on a girl and give her pussy a long eating and don't stop till I feel she is finished.

    To be with someone who makes up excuses for not wanting to have you, moan, scream, wiggle your hips, grab my head and look into your eyes, is everything im looking forward to when licking out a nice pussy.

    If you are interested, i would be happy to meet you and give your pussy just what you are wanting and not have you do anything in return to me and just enjoy having me make sure your pussy is cumming over and over.

    Message me and lets have a chat

  • No, you don't continue to go down on him because he is failing to reciprocate and you want that reciprocation. If you keep on doing his bidding and getting nothing in return then you might as well put a label o your forehead that says "CHUMP". Tell him that effort and enthusiasm should be returned. If he wants to get then he has to give. That doesn't always mean one for one but it does mean that he has to be putting in equal effort in at least some areas of your sex life.

    • Thanks. I agree

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  • I've been there. I broke up with him (not just for that reason but other stuff aswell) and now I've found someone who goes down on me alllll the time, he tells me how much he loves it. I don't even have to ask and he doesn't EXPECT it in return.

    If the rest of your relationships good, I'm not suggesting you break up with him but do bring it up and tell him exactly how you feel. Maybe suggest 69 so you're both getting pleasure.

    If he's not the person you want to be with then move on girl, you're too young to waste your time on someone who isn't satisfying you.

    Good luck

  • Don’t go down on him if he doesn’t go down on you. Women need it more than men since the clit isn’t directly stimulated during intercourse. So, there’s no reason he should get double the pleasure while you get basically none of it.

  • Sucking dicks is great, you should go for it. i love it and then swalowwing it all.

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  • A relationship should always be a give and take. He can't expect you to happily go down on him when he doesn't when he does on you. If he doesn't live up to it, you shouldn't to. It's unfair. Talk to him about it as communication is very important. It may result in a fight, and he might say "I don't like it" but you can counter with "It's not the best thing for me either" (lie if you must), so he understands that these things are done because of love, and he needs to show his part.

    To be honest, I don't know what's so bad. Unless you don't clean down there (I hope you do), there is nothing bad about it. I love doing it cause my girlfriends enjoy it and that makes me happy.

    I wish you nothing but happiness!

  • Say the same, you are not drunk enough to suck him, see what he says, then let him know how you feel, if he wants you to do oral sex, he should do the same for you, he can't expect to receive anything if he doesn't give something as well.

  • Stop going down on him cause that's unfair

    • You mean he should offer her oral too? :D

  • Lol, he sounds like an asshat. You have to give if you want to receive. If he expects you to happily suck his cock, and refuses to eat your pussy with the same enthusiasm, he doesn't deserve to get his dick sucked. What a twat. Then again, try talking to him about it. Ask him why he won't do it. And yes, tell him that isn't fair.

  • He should be willing to give you what you want, especially something like going down on you, but talk to him about it rather than reciprocating with a lack of enthusiasm when you give him head or avoiding it altogether.