My boyfriend wants me to go down on him like his cock is candy?

[Anonymous]

Yet he is the opposite of excited when he goes down on me? Infact, the last time I asked him to go down on me he said he "wasn't drunk enough for that". So what do I do? Do I continue to go down on him with enthusiasm? Or stop and when he asks why explain to him that he's being totally unfair? Or?

[openhere]

There is nothing more exciting for me then to go down on a girl and give her pussy a long eating and don't stop till I feel she is finished.

To be with someone who makes up excuses for not wanting to have you, moan, scream, wiggle your hips, grab my head and look into your eyes, is everything im looking forward to when licking out a nice pussy.

If you are interested, i would be happy to meet you and give your pussy just what you are wanting and not have you do anything in return to me and just enjoy having me make sure your pussy is cumming over and over.

Message me and lets have a chat

[InfoBot]

No, you don't continue to go down on him because he is failing to reciprocate and you want that reciprocation. If you keep on doing his bidding and getting nothing in return then you might as well put a label o your forehead that says "CHUMP". Tell him that effort and enthusiasm should be returned. If he wants to get then he has to give. That doesn't always mean one for one but it does mean that he has to be putting in equal effort in at least some areas of your sex life.

[Asker]

Thanks. I agree

[Asker]

Agree

[PrincessBubble]

I've been there. I broke up with him (not just for that reason but other stuff aswell) and now I've found someone who goes down on me alllll the time, he tells me how much he loves it. I don't even have to ask and he doesn't EXPECT it in return.

If the rest of your relationships good, I'm not suggesting you break up with him but do bring it up and tell him exactly how you feel. Maybe suggest 69 so you're both getting pleasure.

If he's not the person you want to be with then move on girl, you're too young to waste your time on someone who isn't satisfying you.

Good luck

[Anonymous]

Don’t go down on him if he doesn’t go down on you. Women need it more than men since the clit isn’t directly stimulated during intercourse. So, there’s no reason he should get double the pleasure while you get basically none of it.

[Nicole_19]

Sucking dicks is great, you should go for it. i love it and then swalowwing it all.

[vincjh]

A relationship should always be a give and take. He can't expect you to happily go down on him when he doesn't when he does on you. If he doesn't live up to it, you shouldn't to. It's unfair. Talk to him about it as communication is very important. It may result in a fight, and he might say "I don't like it" but you can counter with "It's not the best thing for me either" (lie if you must), so he understands that these things are done because of love, and he needs to show his part.

To be honest, I don't know what's so bad. Unless you don't clean down there (I hope you do), there is nothing bad about it. I love doing it cause my girlfriends enjoy it and that makes me happy.

I wish you nothing but happiness!

[NightlyCreature]

Say the same, you are not drunk enough to suck him, see what he says, then let him know how you feel, if he wants you to do oral sex, he should do the same for you, he can't expect to receive anything if he doesn't give something as well.

[CoffeePossum]

Stop going down on him cause that's unfair

[Gramer]

You mean he should offer her oral too? :D

[JSith]

Lol, he sounds like an asshat. You have to give if you want to receive. If he expects you to happily suck his cock, and refuses to eat your pussy with the same enthusiasm, he doesn't deserve to get his dick sucked. What a twat. Then again, try talking to him about it. Ask him why he won't do it. And yes, tell him that isn't fair.

[Logorithim]

He should be willing to give you what you want, especially something like going down on you, but talk to him about it rather than reciprocating with a lack of enthusiasm when you give him head or avoiding it altogether.

[Annony1]

Does your pussy stank

[NJ_Casanova]

If he's not doing what you want... DON'T do what he wants... Until he does!

[Lonerguy1234]

I hate these ass kissing Guys on here. He doesn't like it so don't force him but you can also choose not to do it, I for one don't like giving oral either

[Asker]

Well the issue isn't that he doesn't like it, it's that he expects it from me... and not only does he expect he wants me to be happy about it when in reality I don't like it either.

[Lonerguy1234]

Well stop honestly its your choice. you both like receiving it but neither likes giving it. Just tell him your gonna stop cuz you don't like it

[Miristheiss]

Man, he is missing out.
It is unfair of him to expect you to do for him what he isn't willing to do for you.
Why isn't he excited about it?

[Asker]

I don't know. And I don't want to ask because he gets offended

[reptocarl]

Tell him only when he does you first. Also tell him if he doesn’t start licking your pussy you’ll find someone that will. Be assertive girl. I doubt this will change much so you have a decision

[Iamaguy4real]

He playing somewhere else

[avi007bondster]

Personally i don't mind going down on a woman anything to please her but sometimes sorry to say this it stinks like hell.. And I tell them sorry I can't.
Another thing is women are much more prone to infections whether its its on the outer or interior section of the vagina.
In guys case if it doesn't smell you shouldn't have any reason not to suck his cock unless he's trying to deep throat you.. That is rude to a woman.

Other than that there's no white discharge, periods issues or infections are also rare in men so i suggest you keep your ego aside during sex.. And enjoy it in efforts to please your partner and it goes for both man and woman.

Hope that answers your question

[Asker]

You basically said "women are gross and men aren't, so suck his dick and accept that he's not gonna eat you out..."

[avi007bondster]

Where exactly did I mention men aren't gross? Tell me pls And is this not a fact that women have higher chances of a urinal or vaginal infection than men? It's proven i never mentioned men don't stink.. Pls read my comment properly I said if he doesn't stink down there and isn't forcing his cock down your throat then i don't see why you wouldn't suck his cock. Unless you are selfish and don't want him to enjoy sex if you are not enjoying it Its absurd Apart from the feminist thing you just said 'that you should suck his cock whether he goes down on you or not' I never said that that's the ego I was talking about sex is about pleasing someone you like or love. You don't tell your loved one that I'll only suck your dick if you lick my pussy and be adamant about it..

[Asker]

Men do this sort of thing all the time. I've heard several men say that they'll only go down on a woman if she goes down on him, which makes sense if someone doesn't LOVE going down on someone. I don't LOVE sucking dick, I do it to make him happy. However it's a bit rude for him to expect enthusiasm out of me, when he doesn't give me the same enthusiasm. Yes women are more prone to UTI's and other infections... very few women will allow someone face near their vagina when they have one.

[avi007bondster]

Haha that probably shows how less often men get blowjobs. But no one is forcing anyone here its your choice if you want to do it or not. And if there's no passion behind it then better leave it at that and rather not do it at all. Because ultimately sex is about pleasure

[DaNeZ]

Do you like going down on him? If yeah keep doing it. If you don't or he sucks when he does/ never does it only give some to him when he makes you feel good, guide him if you have to. It's shitty, yet common for me to hear that, but guide him if needed when/if he goes down on him. You don't feel good/pleasure, give him the blues with your mouth.

[SuperEunuch]

Well how do you feel about going down on him? Do you like it or do you have to be drunk as well?

[Asker]

I don't love it but I don't need to be drunk to do it

[SuperEunuch]

Why don't you just give him alcohol every time so he does it

[Asker]

He shouldn't need alcohol to have sex with me.

[SuperEunuch]

So you want him to act enthusiastic as well?

[koltepreetam]

you should stop...

[clampfan101]

What? Ditch that jerk!

[leftygriffy]

Did you properly prepare the meal for him? As in were you clean? That can sometimes make a man hesitate but if it's clean he'll be like a fat kid at a candy shop

[Asker]

Yeah I'm always clean lol. A girls #1 fear when having sex in general is not being clean "down there" at least it should be.

[leftygriffy]

Then hello I'm happy to meet you lol

[swettannie]

question : do you like to please him?

[Asker]

I like to please him. I don't necessarily love going down on him

[swettannie]

but you love to please him... so yes, continue to go down when he want you too

[Asker]

The problem is I don't like oral enough to do it without him returning the favor. So...

[swettannie]

you'll see, at some point you'll be used to do it

[SuperEunuch]

Then don't do it unless he does return the favor

[Humbledman74006]

Do you enjoy it, like it's candy?

[Asker]

Not at all

[Humbledman74006]

Them srop. till he does

[scooogy]

Stop cooking for him, and tell him he'll only eat pussy from now on.

[Sixgun77]

Tell him its unfair. Communication is the best way to fix things in bed.

[gonzi3190]

Refuse until he mans up and keeps it mutual? Smh.

[Anonymous]

No and he’s very selfish. I would give him head if he’s not reciprocating it to you. Doesn’t sound like much of a boyfriend or lover to me. Jmo.

[Anonymous]

Yeah dump him. I like girls going down on me like it's candy but I GENUINELY LOVE going down on them as well.
He can't expect something he wouldn't do himself. Besides, he must have some kind of brain damage if he doesn't like eating pussy.