Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to sex.
I think for everyone, it's important to set boundaries and to make it clear what is acceptable and what is off-limits.
You should never be pressured into anything that makes you uncomfortable. Maybe talk with your boyfriend and tell him how you and let him know how far you are willing to go.
Just please think of your own feelings and set limits or things could just keep going in a direction that makes you unhappy. For good sex both partners need to happy (in my opinion).
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It's more common than you think. I understand feeling weird about it though. I would suggest taking pictures and videos during sex and posting them anonymously on reddit. See how it makes you feel having others see you. If you get a reddit user that you really enjoy talking to, setup a webcam sometime and let them watch in real time and talk to you both during.
If you are still having fun and liking it, maybe look for a local guy or girl (or couple) and do it in real life. Bottom line is to build up to it to see if it's something you truly want to try without fully going there ya know?0 5 0 0A girlfriend and I did what you suggest, and it is very close to having someone there. I found it a huge turn on and we had men watch us on camera, f*** while they jerked watching us. I'm sure it is very common. Good answer BTY.
It is really up to you and him, there is no right or wrong on things like this. Sure some religious people have their moral values on it or some on how they were raised.
Some people literally think nudity is porn, but whatever.
If you both are comfortable and want to do it, go for it. Obviously, you'll be nervous the first time, but if it was me... I'd rather it be strangers than a friend, I don't want to have to see them again afterwards.
Maybe if I did it often and got used to it and my friends knew that I did that, then it wouldn't matter.
Best of luck, no matter what you do.
0 3 0 0Good answer, what I would have said.
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This is not an uncommon fantasy/kink for either men or women but it's not 100% mainstream.
It really is what you are comfortable doing and you need to stand firm however you feel with your boyfriend. Don't judge his want, but if you're not comfortable, don't do it.
As for your question would I do it? My wife and I have talked about it but haven't gone any further than still talking about it.
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9 23If you don't want to do something like that and him asking you that makes you uncomfortable, tell him so. If you're not timid and something like that might be in the cards, by all means go for it just for the experience.
Cuckolding is not something most mainstream couples do, but there are some that do partake in it and it's a part of their sex lives. It's not abnormal, but not for everybody. You can't be shy and do something like that.
Anyways, it's your body and ONLY YOU can decide what happens with it.
0 1 0 0No its not normal, and no I would not let it happen because it is something I do not want to do.
But if it's something you are interested in doing then I say go ahead and have fun, no judgment here. But if you do something like this, make sure you are doing it for your own reasons, and not doing it just for him or to just make him happy.0 0 0 0It is not "normal", but it is not that odd or unusual. If you find it interesting and you want to try it, I suggest posting to reddit to retain anonymity, or having sex with each other while another couple is in the room, possibly also having sex with each other.
0 0 0 0It's normal, just means he's a freak. As I've heard of a story, actually many of people having sex while being filmed or watched live.
0 0 0 0Your boyfriend is an exhibitionist, I am not into it, and I don't think that it's common.
0 0 0 0it can be great.
a nice thing to do is with another couple having sex next to you at the same time.
1 6 0 0Find a local sex / swingers club, have a look around and see how you feel
0 0 0 0It’s not everyday normal but lots of people do it. They key thing is that you want to. If you don’t, say so.
If he’s never done it before he might well find it isn’t what he thought it would be.0 0 0 0Not somthing I'm into nope
0 0 0 0The better question is, would you be into it. It's not abnormal. A lot of people get turned on by being watched
0 1 0 0No that’s not normal either
0 0 0 0Common male fantasy.
0 0 0 0A girlfriend and I did it several times, with strangers on web cam, and we found a couple in Toronto, and she 'rubbed off with the husband and I rubbed off with his wife. It was fun and exciting, and other men liked to watch she and I fuck while he jerked-off. Try it.
Understand the feeling of naughtiness and the desire to to be watched.
Not sure it's normal, but I'd at least think about it.0 1 0 0i think we all have our own sexual fantasies so yeah i think that's normal. i will not let that happen though. i think makinh sex video is common for men to suggest but i am not thst stupid to allow that
0 1 0 0There is no normal. I'd only consider it if it was my partner's kink.
1 0 0 0Personally I’m not at that point. Seems exciting enough. I just don’t think I could do that.
0 0 0 0Ugh hell no!
0 0 0 0I know this is a thing with some couples but it just depends on how comfortable you are letting people see you naked and doing the deed. The other issue is that these people see you, then what do they do going forward? Do they go away? Do they watch again? Could they stalk you or pursue you guys for more? Lots of unknowns.
0 0 0 0I wouldn't mind having strangers watching unexpectedly. It happened a few times. I wouldn't plan to have people watch though
0 0 0 0That’s just to weird
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