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My boyfriend wants to crossdress, is ir weird?

He has recently developed an interest in cross-dressing and wants to try it. I'm so confused, what to do...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not so uncommon anymore. Or it's just it's a little more accepted and so more guys are willing to admit to it. But you have to communicate your feelings about it all. I like to wear a few things that can be called panties I guess. They're made for guys, but kinda made to look like panties. They're super comfortable. I don't do it when my girlfriend's around because she's not a fan of it. I definitely wouldn't wear hers, they wouldn't fit anyway. So if it's not something you want to see at all, make sure he knows that and see if he'll just do it when you're not around. And if that works for him, hopefully it's not a big deal to you what he's wearing when you're not around. If he's dead set on including you in it, then I guess give it a try once and if it's something that's just too weird for you and then you both might need to agree that you're both looking for something else.

  • Share clothes 🤣🤣🤣

    seriously, talk to him. Find out why and tell him how u feel too . There must be a reason. Could be worse …remember its only clothing

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  • It's a lot less weird than people think. MOST of them just keep it to themselves or do it in secret. So, you have to decide if it's something you can deal with. It's common to just jump to some sort of conclusion that he's gay, but in reality, there's no correlation there. Some of them like to do it because they find girl's underwear more comfortable. Some do it because they feel sexy in them and it's a self-esteem boost because they don't make a lot of sexy underwear for guys. Some, yeah it's a fetish thing. So, ask him why he wants to, whether he needs you to be apart of it in any way and then tell him how you feel and then you two can agree on whether or not you can both be happy with the situation.

  • I can't tell you what you should do, but I would get out of the relationship. He'll probably be wearing your clothes, shoes and underwear when you are not around. Probably to masturbate.

    If that appeals to you, stick with him. It would turn my stomache.

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  • Well you probably need to dress as a bloke to counter balance.

    • Umm its weird

    • Well otherwise you are basically sleeping with a girl with a appendage , now maybe you enjoy that? I dont know... a bloke in a dress is just that.

  • Nowadays No.

    • Really

  • Everyone acting like that's normal can fuck off. It's "acceptable", but it is not and never will be normal.
    I'd dump him and find a guy who isn't confused about his identity or has some other crazy shit going on in his head

  • Is it just women’s underwear? That’s pretty common. Just read the reviews on Victoria Secret. If it’s under his guy clothes I think it’s fine.

  • Personally, I think it is weird.

  • Yes, it is. Advice? Hit the road. Your relationship will end in sorrow, anyway.

  • It's not gonna hurt either of you and, chances are, you've been doing it your whole life!
    I've done it most of my life and I still case after girls.

  • Its not so weird now days

    I been wearing women's well $ince the 1980s. It all started from my very first girlfriend that wanted me to wear lingerie. After a while she slowly replaced worn out mens clothing with a ladies version of the same thing.

    If you saw me on the street today. You may not be able to tell I'm wearing women's clothes.

    I wear a beard and look like a man.

    Just over time I found women's jeans more comfortable , fit me better and they have a stretch that men's jeans don't have.

    Another thing I have been married for 30 years.

    Just because he might to wear ladies wear. That don't make him a Fruitcake (AKA a fagot)

    Now at first he might go overboard with shopping, that will slow down quite a bit after a little time.

    (The following is about making real good money for CDing. Full links to stories on bottom for proof I'm not lying)

    Now there is a side note, I just recently found out. That stores are paying young men to do the whole Male to Female look thing for social media websites.

    Like this guy that is a warehouse worker. At the age of 24 who first dressed up as a woman 'for a laugh for Halloween. This dude now earns £2,000 A WEEK entertaining webcam clients in his glitzy frocks, fishnets and heels

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4639356/Cross-dressing-man-earns-2-000-WEEK-webcam-artist.html

    Then there are affiliate programs for crossdressers. These clothing stores are specialized in clothing for the crossdresser. And they pay very well.

    Here is one store that is hiring for just that.

    https://www.crossdressboutique.com/affiliate-area/

    That's just two ways to make money crossdressing

    Then you got F1NN5TER a YouTube star that really started making real Money once he started crossdressing on camera.

    Here is his story

    https://allaboutcd.com/f1nn5ter-story-behind-the-gamer-who-started-dressing-up-as-a-girl/

    So crossdressing can't be all bad

  • Socially probably not the norm but the more important question is if it’s hurting anything.

  • It's what he wants to do but if u don't feel comfortable with it then u gotta tell him

  • Seems very common these days.

    • Sounds like you've had a colorful past

  • A little. Not a normal thing to do. Goodluck!

  • Tell him you will only agree if he does something for you.

  • It's a little weird for me but I heard it's a kink for some guys I am not sure why though.

  • No, not weird. Talk with him, listen and ask questions. Understand what is driving the desire. If it’s something you’re ok with, go for it.

    I have tried on some women’s clothes (in the privacy of my own home - with and without a girl present) before to see what it’s like.

  • It's a little unusual. If he just wants to try it one time, fine. If he wants to crossdress 24/7 that could be an issue. How's your sex life otherwise?

  • respect his choices?

  • Not if it's just panties.. I mean if he's wearing all your shit, than put him in charge of doing laundry!

  • What's your confusion?

    • What to do

  • Yes it is weird. If you don't like it break up.

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