My boyfriend wants to experiment with other men?

Question

So I've always had a thing for bisexual guys, my boyfriend and I have had a threesome with another girl before, and I've always known he wasn't completely straight. So when he told me he wants to experiment, I was excited, aroused because its a fantasy of mine, but for some reason I have this sense of dread too, I've tried explaining it but I don't know how. Why am I dreading this?

LoveSpurts · Accepted Answer

I don't know that you can stop it once you and he have discussed it. I don't think you want him going off and doing stuff when you're not around, right? So if he is slanted that way, it's best you do it together and start slowly. by the way, it is very cool that it turns you on the think about him that way. Maybe you and he give another guy (that you both like and trust) a BJ together? Let him take the cumshot in his mouth or better yet, let the guy's cock cum in yours and then kiss your boyfriend with it? Take it slow. Hope this helps.

caitlayninside · Accepted Answer

That would be so fantastic …go for it girl, don't know why you dread it its what you love to do once at least. Other than fear, because it's a little taboo however it's a fun thing/fling.! i think u can share the idea of sucking and a having cock together that sound good to me:) …god im so horny now!

BellePepper · Accepted Answer

I think it's normal to worry about possible changes. Like what if he likes guys more than you, right? But, those changes will happen regardless.

Basically you can both have fun, let him try things on his own, or part ways.

silverfeline · Accepted Answer

Well he will be going off to have sex with other guys without you which could open the door to him possibly catching feelings for a guy and leaving you

MadeInAmerica · Answer

Because while you have a thing for actual guys you don't want your guy having sex and doing things with another guy while you are there.

summiter · Answer

Ask if you can watch him or join them.

Thor696 · Answer

Because you don't want to "share" and there are insecurities within you that are wondering if he may "tilt" all the way to the other side of the fence.

ChuckL77 · Answer

He is probably in the closet. This is going to end badly for you. Trust me.

theguyisback · Answer

You can do it 😜 ... id be totally timed if I had a girl that was into doing it with other guys in front of me.. I love watching 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

chrisbigman · Answer

That dread is common sense. You participate in any further threesomes, you risk getting an STD.

thegreatone7 · Answer

You dread because you feel insecure about it, and not just you anybody doing this would feel the same. It's risky but if you trust each other well then it's all ok.