My boyfriend wants to have anal sex with me; will it hurt or feel good?

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  • Relaxation is key above anything else, so your mindset is a crucial component of how smooth the ship will sail. If you don't feel comfortable or safe, and too self-aware, you cannot let yourself go and truly embrace the experience. If it hurts in the beginning, don't give up on it right from the start. Go slowly and give yourself some time to process the experience and for your muscles to relax. That is provided you are willing to try it yourself rather than just your boyfriend. Being pressurised isn't going to be beneficial in any way, unless your are into things like rape play. So, with that out of the way, anal sex can be truly phenomenal. I only have to use the words 'anal pounding' and my girl is instantly drippingly wet. I can assure you with absolute certainty that it stands on top of her list of most favourite things to do, ever. She can be fucked completely out of her mind without even going near her clit with juice flowing out of her pussy like running tap water without even touching it.

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  • More often then not when we do anal, I actually enjoy it more than vaginal penetration 😅 it's such a different feeling and he loves when he hits that spot which makes me uncontrollably loud. At first it's super uncomfortable and of course you're going to be self conscious of what's THERE. But do it enough and just be comfortable with the fact that you will experience poop and it's actually not gross! Experiment and have fun with it! Being worried or closed off to fun will ruin anything

  • It's going to hurt- A LOT.
    But with lubricant, and if he's gentle with you, it feels great! :) You have to ease into it more than anything.

    It takes some getting use to, and I will admit, it does hurt a little at first, especially if he is larger down there. Make sure he goes slow at first and doesn't force it in. But once you get used to it? It really is great!

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  • It'll feel great. Try it this was the first time or two.

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  • One way to find out, and that's bend over and take it where the sun don't shine.

    • Nice...

  • This is one time when penis size DOES matter... especially the thickness.

    If he is pretty average then it shouldn't hurt if you use lube, start with fingers, and take it slow.

    It can really feel great having a penis in your ass:)

  • Don't worry he'll enjoy it

  • the men on here are going to try to talkk you into doing it, but I think your boyfriend is a closet homosexual.

    This is disgusting. Educate yourself, this can go wrong in so many ways. Sperm don't belong in your mouth and they also don't belong up your asshole.

  • everyone ia different but based on my experience with my ex boyfriend it may hurt like it did for me.

  • Feel good for him, for you it'll hurt. Breath slowly and use lube

  • It takes a while to get used to it.
    remember, the lube!!

    • By a while do u mean a few mins or a few times?

    • @Erin2003 a few (or more) times.

  • It can only feel good if you want it to. But even then it might not if he rusephes things or is too selfish. With normal sex a guy can be a little selfish and still please a woman, but with anal there is a lot of finger work that goes into it, and if he neglects that you'll be bored at best.

  • It should feel good. Sometimes I like it even more than vaginal sex

  • It will like something being forced against your will, and when the penis eventually breaks through the entire length will fill you up and your eyes will feel like their bursting. Then he'll grab you and keep penetrating you whilst your paralysed and you can't scream... no one will hear you scream 😥

  • Not if you use a lot of lube inside you and on him. After he gets the head of his penis inside you it feels wonderful and you will love it!

    • But getting the head of the penis inside can be quite painful for a min or so

    • Wow my dream girl that's hot...

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  • Depends if you enjoy it or not

  • Not if You get a butt plug trainer set. You have to start out small and the best time to wear it is when Your sleeping. After about a week You will be able to move up to the next size. You have to take Your time till You move up to the size of Your boyfriends penis. If You prepare it can be a very pleasurable experience because the G-spot is closer on the anal size. Also wearing a large plug pushes the G-spot closer to the vaginal wall and makes the vagina tighter.

  • Ask my sister @JuicyJessie. She did a lot of research on this subject.

    From what I know, it has to be done in a certain way, otherwise it can be painful enough to put you off for life. I also believe there is a great danger of cross infection from the bacteria that exist inside your bum.

  • You should try it out with me first so you'll know what to expect. I can help.

  • take it slow. lots of patience lots of lube. use finger 1st and maybe small plugs... you are more likely to enjoy it or at least minimize 'pain' before the real thing and he should take it super slow with care.

  • Lots of lube and the right position and slow very slow and eventually you will get relaxed and he can fuck your ass fast and hard while you play with your pussy and and you both get off way intense. I taught my girl and we " do thingz" all the time for the past 3 years now. Tip: sounds crazy but the bigger and harder ( especially harder) the better the experience.

  • You are 30 give it try.. You have nothing to loose

  • Depends on what he's packing...
    Make sure to use lube

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