My boyfriend wants to have sex everyday but I don't?

I love my boyfriend and I'm really attracted to him but I don't always want to do sexual acts or have sex with him whereas nearly everyday he initiates sexual activities with me. It all starts when we make out and he starts touching me and eventually takes off my clothes and gives me oral, but I don't always want making out to lead to this. Most of the time I'm satisfied with making out and him feeling me over my clothes but he always goes further. I love him and I don't want to say anything to him incase he takes it up wrong and then he will be afraid to initiate sex with me in the future. Sex once a week is enough for me :( I notice that when I was away for a few weeks on holidays and I came back the sexual tension was so high between us and i had such great sex because I hadn't had it in a few weeks and I actually really wanted it. I enjoy sex when I'm horny and actually really want it but doing it everyday and doing sexual activities everyday doesn't make me want it anymore :(
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  • find the middle ground. he has to hold his urge every now and then. you also need to give in every now and then. now where this middle ground is based on how much it inconvenient you vs how much it frustrate him for not having it.

    there are also other ways he can relieve himself in case you can't keep up, but keep it until the last option

  • Sex every day is very important in a committed relationship and marriage! What if the guy wants to get his girl/wife pregnant and they miss it because she only wants sex once every week. My future wife and I will be getting it on in bedroom and the bathroom in the bathtub/shower for the first couple of months.

Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all, you are under NO obligation to always give him sex. You are allowed to say no if you do not want to have it. If he has a problem with this and cannot respect your own sex drive then you two are unfortunately incompatible.

  • Just tell him. Nobody has to have sex every single time the other person wants it.

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  • Allow him to see other girls so you can have your downtime and he can continue to have his daily sex. It's win-win.

  • Has to be talked about because it has to be compromised in some way, this can quickly become one of thr biggest strains on a relationship

  • Explain it to him like you did here. Just talk about it as communication is always important. If it leads to a fight he's too immature to have the conversation anyway.

  • Nah just tell him not worth being stealthy about it to suppress your needs. Make it clear that you do enjoy it through words and actions but your sexual appetite is just not as voracious.

  • tell him!!!