My boyfriend wants to have sex only once a week and it's really not enough for me how can I talk about it with him?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • To start with, you need to be honest with each other about your needs and desires, which means you need to have a discussion about this away from the bedroom. Make sure you avoid being negative - tell him how much you desire him and how he makes you feel and that you miss sharing sex with him, etc. Then give him an idea of how often you'd like to have it, and then let him tell you how he feels and why, and see if you can work out a compromise that you can both live with, and help each other understand the other's position.

    Ultimately, if your sex drives are too far apart, it's likely to be an unsolvable problem, which is why compatibility in a relationship is so important, and why you need to confirm compatibility BEFORE you commit to a relationship (by having lots of discussions about lots of things). Hopefully, some honest positive discussion will allow you to work something out.

    • Thank you so muchh!! It helped me a lot

  • You should be able to have a good candid conversation about sex with your boyfriend. It not a taboo subject between consenting adults.
    However, if he is not into sex like you are and just wants to do it once a week... you are probably going to be really disappointed if you get married... just something to think about.
    Good luck.

    • Thanks for the MHO. I hope things work out for you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just bring it up over breakfast or after having that weekly sex. Relationships are about compromise. If you could, how often would you like sex? Maybe three times a week? That sounds doable. But if you want sex every day... you're going to have issues that are likely unresolvable. If you are too far apart on this, you might have to consider that you're not a good match. But, talk to him first...

  • Just tell him flat out. Be open and honest about it.

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  • Ask him to masturbate with you more. Maybe he can finger you instead of of penetrating. Maybe you get a rabbit toy for yourself and he can hold it in place while you enjoy it.

  • Just talk to him. Do you need advice on how to talk? Just be blunt and tell him what your needs are.

  • Watch porn in front of him and if he asks the reason tell him that you aren't getting enough of it.

  • Send dirty messages to him and seduce.

  • Just say that you want to have more sex. This isn't the kind of issue that you want to tip-toe around on. You want to get laid more; so say something about it.

  • Tell him bvb you need sex more often. Maybe if you just need to cym more often you can ask him to pleasure you without having sex.

  • Just be frank with him and tell your prefrence

  • Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel and go from there. Trust me this is the best way. Let me know what he says okay

  • "how can I talk about it with him?"

    You open your mouth and say words.

    • Exactly lol🤣🤣🤣

    • Ha. ha. ha

  • if you touch his dick, he's gonna want to have sex with you. Just start grabbing it and playing with it when you are in the mood ;)

  • Seek salvation and only have sex within marriage.

  • Stay open

  • Mismatched sex drives in a relationship usually ends in failure. You guys might want to think about having an open relationship.