My boyfriend wants to take me to a strip club and I find it disgusting am I wrong?

[osoli]

My boyfriend wants to take me to a strip club with him because I’ve never been, he says it’s cool and I should at least give it a chance but I’m so against it and don’t even know why, am I wrong or is going to a strip club just wrong?

[Apple1996]

Don't go if you are uncomfortable with it but it might be worth it just for the experience

Only times I ever been to a strip club was with my husband. It's a lot less awkward then you might think and can even be fun especially since strippers love the women that come in so that they don't have to deal with the gross men in there

[Samantha36]

My boyfriend took me to a strip club as I'd never been. I loved it! We had a private dance just for the 2 of us. I picked the woman and we sat there while she danced for us. I rubbed my boyfriend's cock the whole time. We then had to leave to go home and immediately fuck.

If its against your principles then don't do it and don't let him pressure you in to it.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Did you like it

[soe11]

Exactly we do some occasions.

[Samantha36]

@baseball_del_tuono of course. Who doesn't like a naked womans body

[OfMiceandMen]

I am of the same opinion, the couple of times I've gone (1st time to see for myself and the 2nd time because it was a friend's bachelor party) I went home afterwards, scrubbed and disinfected.

Never went back, I just find them gross.

[MementoMori777]

Yes I have christian values, this is considered wrong in my opinion cause it's just all lustful and if you feel like you shouldn't go, then don't, it's best to follow your gut instincts in general anyways

[Beatrix7]

you are not wrong thats duscusting weird wit the fuck is up with him why do u wanna see sluts dancing and taking there clothes off and see them all over your boyfriend a would crack up

[Samantha36]

Wow! Who said they were sluts?

[Beatrix7]

well its a strip club what so u think they are angels from heaven that never shag

[Samantha36]

No, I think they're woman who take their clothes off and dance for the pleasure of others to earn a living. Some of which have husbands and children.

[Beatrix7]

yeah fk earning a living like that and if u find it discusting then dont go and women some women are sluts that do that not all of them but some but dont go if u think its discusting thats my answer ok

[Samantha36]

No need to be so judgmental though

[Beatrix7]

yeah kl my moms a stripper nice job with a kid if i was a guy fk having ma bird stripping for other guys wouldn't do that if i had a kid either ad rather earn my living in a better way

[Beatrix7]

well thats my opinion its wrong to do that if you have a husband and kids but anyway doll see if u dont wanna go just dont it dosent sound like your thing anyway hun if u think its discustinh

[Samantha36]

So would I but everyone's different

[Beatrix7]

yeah ok kl

[God_of_Thunder]

If you don't want to go, then you don't want to go. There's nothing wrong with that.

I certainly wouldn't want to go with a girl to see half naked guys dancing around, if the situation were reversed. 🤮

[Katie1964]

No you are not wrong, your opinion counts in your relationship.

I have gone with my husband but I asked him to take me because I just wanted to see what actually happens in there.

[Tyrael]

I wouldn't say it's wrong to go, but it is exorbitant expensive and pointless. Just a waste of money

[Quackthulu2]

Nothing wrong with asking, and there’s nothing wrong with saying no. it’s only a problem if he keeps pushing after you already said no.

[LazerBean]

Your boyfriend needs to return to the streets where he belongs.

[slatyb]

It's a preference. If you don't want to go, don't go.

[Spade_01]

No, you're not wrong to feel that way. A strip club is a place for low lives and people with no self respect.

[bowenw]

It's a personal choice. If you're not sure why you're against them, you could offer to go for 15 minutes to prove it to yourself that you don't like them.

[Nikki1989]

Why are you with a man that still wants to go to strip clubs? That is a huge red flag right there.

[Samantha36]

That's not a red flag! He's a male. Its abit of fun and you can't touch them. At least he's inviting her. Better than going behind her back. I loved it when my boyfriend took me.

[Mansearching]

Don't let him pressure you in going. If you said no, then answer is no.

But. You said in question that it was disgusting. Then you said you didn't know why you said no. A past ex and I went a few times together. We both enjoyed it. Then later we enjoyed each other.

[soe11]

Nothing wrong my dear go for it.

[Wise4myage]

Then don't go.

[Mangospacho]

Yeah, I thought the whole point of having a girlfriend is you don’t have to spend money at a strip club anymore. 🤔

[baseball_del_tuono]

Not at all

[SpaceGalaxy]

you are not wrong. He is simply a loser

[NoNa69]

If you don't want to go then don't

[Redeye69]

Go and check it out, then talk after about what he was looking for in taking you. Comment on how you felt so he knows. I've never liked those either but I get what he is asking.

[Anonymous]

You are very wrong. He will dump you.