My boyfriend wants to take my anal virginity?

One. I'm curious why he's so fixated on it. Two, what should I expect? And 3... do I have to do anything dietary wise to prepare for something like that?
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  • 1. Anal sex is a popular topic of discussion and many more people are interested in trying it. The idea is exciting because it is taboo and naughty, and guys almost universally say that it is an incredible physical experience.

    2. You should expect to feel nervous and perhaps scared because girls who don't want to try it, or girls who tried once with an inexperienced guy, will tell you that it is painful. The truth is that the anal sphincter is capable of relaxing and accepting his entry without pain, but that requires you to be relaxed. And you are asking "how in the hell could I be relaxed when he is trying to stick his dick in me back there?" You need to be properly prepared. You need to make sure that you are extra clean before you get in bed with him. You can't go straight to anal; you need to be very aroused through foreplay. So have him give you oral sex and start giving you a little anal play with his finger, and use lube for this. When you feel ready, have him lube you and him very, very well, then have him start pushing in slowly. Your sphincter needs a few moments to relax, so have him push in slowly. And push out while he is pushing in; it sounds like bad advice but it works. Once he is inside you, have him stop for a few seconds until you feel ready for him to keep pushing forward. Then he can begin thrusting slowly and gradually pick up he pace. While he is doing that, it will help you if you reach back and finger your clit while he's thrusting. Believe it or not, there are women who have orgasms from anal sex and they say they are powerful orgasms.

    3. No advance dietary prep is necessary. Most people have some regularity in their bowel habits. If you go once a day on the morning, then have anal sex at night and not in the morning. Your colon does not normally contain any fecal matter until shortly before you eliminate, so if you aren't close to that time, your colon should be clean. Some girls do enemas to prepare but it isn't necessary. And it is very unlikely that his dick will have shit on it when he pulls out. I have never had that happen. The people who claim that happens are either doing it right before the lady needs to eliminate, or they have never actually had anal sex.

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  • Have you broached the subject of him loosing his?
    do a sit down and look over sex toys, mainly strapon types.

    explain how it’s only fair, if he will be doing it to you, that he experiences it first.

    ignore lube etc, just spit on the end and slam it in to his ass.

    he may decide that he has had a change of heart

  • Don't do anything you don't want to. I don't know how you prepare for something like that, but shooting out a big turd into his lap, right after he's done may serve him right. I don't get the ass thing, but some people like it, so do what makes you happy. But don't do anything you don't want to either.

  • I’ll never understand why guys want to do this. It’s a place where shit comes out, it isn’t lubricated, it’s not safe and must be painful for the girl. If a guy wants to do this, he may as well be fucking another guy.

  • u actually gonna let him?

  • You don't have to change your eating habits. Guys like it because it's extremely tight. My girlfriend says it feels like she's pooping, but it's not painful.

  • If you give him in your ass he will be the happiest guy on earth. You need to prepare for this. Do not eat carbohydrates and give preference to fruits about 6 hours before sex. After going to the toilet, you must do an enema. And smear the butt with a cream that smells good. Also, during sex, there must be anal lubricant. Good luck )

  • Do you want to do it or he is pushing you?

  • experiencing it 2 to 3 times a month is ok and it's really fun BUT it has its own side effects if you pass the limits, some women can experience losing control over their anus which can be stopped by doing exercises specifically for the anus muscle
    yeah you should wash inside your anus otherwise it's gonna be really messy and sometimes smelly
    search "how to get ready for anal sex" you should find some tutorials for cleaning the inside easily

    • also, I forgot to say this, use a water-based lubricant so it doesn't hurt so much and slip through the anus more easily