My boyfriend wants to watch me having sex with another guy, what should I do?

He told me this today. He showed me pictures of the guy, a tall and handsome man he would pay. Should I do it for his pleasure? Is it wrong for a guy to ask something like that? I mean I would definitely enjoy the sex with the other guy, but it just seem kinda wrong into our relationship.
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  • Personally I wouldn't do this because this is another way of asking me to lose my self respect. Never have a sex with someone outside of your relationship, or marriage period. You don't know if this person is crazy, or will this person give you an STD. If he want you to have sex outside of him, then he need to apply for porn production. Don't let another man ask you to lose your value because during that very moment he might walk out, and leave you. He is fantasizing this, but minds can quickly change once in the middle of the happening. Suppose this guy go out and tell the world that your boyfriend allowed him to have sex with you. Suppose there is a hidden camera set in place where you don't know. There are way too many cons to consider when allowing someone else inside of your bedroom other than the two people sleeping in bed together. Don't have sex with another man outside of your relationship because once you lay down the guilt trip pay you a visit. There are women who are into this, and some have even gotten pregnant.

    • I agree with you, honestly he didn't say he would leave me, he just offered my opinion. It does sounds strange, but at the same time, I don't know if that's really THAT bad.

    • yes because ask yourself how would you feel if he brought another girl in the room surprisingly, or a decision you both agreed on? can you see him having sex with another girl? Suppose he bring this up afterwards, and tell you that he want to have sex with a girl? His feelings with you definitely will change, and he might even feel very awkward seeing this take place. If something makes you feel uncomfortable don't go for it because someone is your boyfriend. I can understand if you both were married, and there was a large wall of trust build up between you two, then this situation would be very much different. There is nothing wrong with having fun, but please consider your safety, pros/cons that come along with this.

    • He asked me to do it, I don't really feel the same pleasure seeing him with another girl, but if he enjoy me having sex with another man, that's his choice. It wouldn't be bad for me either as the guy is quite attractive, but still as you said, I have to consider the pros and cons.

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  • From experience I’ll tell you it’s not a good idea. I did that for my ex. Later he wanted more and to see me with more than one guy. I did it all because I loved him. Eventually he called me a slut and broke up with me and I was the one left with a bad reputation. Don’t do it.

    • thanks for the input, I am worried of that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a cuckold fetish. You can try and find out what's causing it and try to reduce the problem. The cuckold fetish usually happens when a person (usually a man) is very stressed out by his relationship or work and want's someone else to take the pressure off of them. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, try to find out what is stressing him out and try to fix the problem. Or, you can tell him to go see a sex therapist. If you feel comfortable engaging in the cuckold fetish, just do it.

    • never heard of it, what do you think can cause that? the sex therapist is a good idea also

    • It could be a fight you guys had could've stressed him out or something at work. Yes, he should see the sex therapist. It could gets worse. Please, don't panic, but sometimes it gets worse. Some men can't get it up unless they do the cuckold thing. They get some kind of psychologically induced erectile dysfunction and they can't get an erection unless they're doing the cuckold thing. But, i'm not sure how common it is.

    • I will talk about it with him, that's almost scary seriously

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  • I wouldn't have sex with a stranger for money to begin with. Who knows how many other sexual acts he's performed because somebody offered him money? A mutual friend is one thing... some random guy who will have sex with somebody he's never seen for the right price... definitely would advise against that

    • Yeah I would ensure the guy can be trust, I think he knows him from a friend so not completely stranger either.

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  • It is. You Look Like a Fool with this Sedol. Dump him. xx

  • If you don't want to do it, DON'T!

    You aren't obligated to do it just because he's your boyfriend, you know. You are still your own individual person.

    • Personality, I would do it, but it just seem weird in a relationship, I don't know hard to explain

    • It *is* weird. Though I guess if you also wanna do it, then go. Just make sure the other guy in question does not have you know, sexually transmitted disease.

    • yeah ofc make sure everything is safe!

  • It is very wrong. No man can love you if he could literally watch another man have sex with you. If I love a woman, I would be ready to kill another man if he did that shit... no way in hell could I stand the thought of my woman with another man, much less go through with her actually having sex with him. Run... run like hell. Find a man who wouldn't be able to stand the thought of it.

  • If he wants to see it go for it, it's not like you're cheating on him

  • It depends on if it's something you want too or not. If he is open enough to tell you what he would enjoy to me that shows a lot of trust in the relationship. Not many people can open up about that kind of stuff with their partner. If it is something you'd want to do the. I suggest talking before hand about rules and boundaries and such.

    • Yeah definitely would talk about what is ok and not. Never done such things before.

    • First time for everything. Just make sure you want to do it it too

  • Don't date a cuck, break it off

  • It's down to it u want to in the relationship

    • Yeah I do believe that too, but I'm unsure if there should be limit to what you do into a relationship

    • That's between you and him to set that limit

  • Lmao that's a huge deal breaker. I'd dump him without a second thought if I were you. I don't want to be involved with emasculated imbeciles and I certainly wouldn't date one. My respect for him would just be gone and my attraction/interest will be destroyed.
    I want a man, not a little bitch.

    • He is a man, but definitely has some insecurities. He had some difficult times. I'ma try to talk with him

    • He is absolutely not a man in my opinion but a little bitch aka cuck. Do whatever floats your boat, good luck.

  • No, not if you're not comfortable with it

  • For me its wrong but talk to him

  • Strange and weird.

  • I don't even know what to say, there's little hope for you two

    • I mean first of all you said you'd enjoy the sex with the other guy, you appear to be actually considering it, and the fact that he asks this in the first place is super fucked up. Basically the relationship is already fucked ditch out now before bad shit happens

  • Do what you think is right. Don't be swayed by anyone else and what they want.

  • Do it, and let him have sex with other girls.

  • I would say no.. But you seem up for it, and quite excited to do it , One question comes to mind is why, maybe he got some pervy thing going on? . Also what will happen to the pictures?

    • what do you mean?

    • I find situations very arousing , like 3 sommes me an 2 lasses. But I get that dread , what if someone finds out. Today with mobiles all have cameras , what if it is recorded. It could cause damage in the wrong hands. . There is a thing called revenge porn. I sent a nude photo to a friend , some years later , sifting through some porn I came across the photo , it was a heart stopping moment , thankfully I had disguised my face. So like I said its not the act its what happens later...

    • yeah that would be a scary situation, I don't think he would record it without telling me

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  • you're dating a cuck, I'm sorry. #Heforshe lol

  • If you are not comfortable doing it then don't. Clearly your b. f does not respect you. I personally would never share my girl with another guy. She is mine and i would never ask her to do something like your b. f is asking you.

  • I don't get it

    • He wants to watch her getting laid by another. Wanna volunteer, dear? lolxxx

    • I'm not giving up my secret moves lol

  • He’s a cuck loser dump his ass.

  • If he wants you to do it because thats his thing, why not? You get a happy boyfriend and you get dicked down good

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