My boyfriend wants to watch me sexually with another man. I've repeatedly told him no and that I'm completely uncomfortable with it. What should I do?

So I guess my boyfriend has a cuckolding kink but it makes me feel like I'm not special to him and that he doesn't have a desire to be monogamous with me. What should I do? I love him with all my heart but it just hurts to think that he would be willing to share me with someone else. I've told him this and he isn't says that he thinks "it would be hot". Like wtf?
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  • Perhaps there's a middle way? Maybe record your sex and let him watch that? See what he thinks about that.

  • Leave

  • Break up with him... I am serious lol

  • Just say last time try to explain your feeling about it otherwise don't talk to him until he realize

  • Well, you've found out that you're not special in his life and he has a porn addiction.

    I have no doubt that you deserve better than this... Kicking his ass out of your life is the best option you have.

    Time to move on and find a normal man, one that's able to love you, to share your life with.

  • Leave him, get your own life and looking for suitable candidate, who is compatible with you chemistry.

  • No means no.

  • If he insist and insist, do not give in. That's his fantasy, not yours. Don't do something you'll greatly regret for the rest of your life.

    Both of you need a long talk. Doubts needs to be clarified, because it seems both haven't went into dept with the boundaries of your relationship.

  • Either break up with him or you can try a threesome instead

  • Give him an ultimatum if he persists

  • Tell him to buy you a male sex doll with a vibrating dick. He has to pay for it out of his own money, though; since it's his kink, not yours.

  • Dump his sorry ass.

  • Obviously the two of you are incompatible. You must decide what to do, being in a relationship with someone with whom you are incompatible.

  • I’d dump him

  • Tell him you did it but forgot to tape it🤣

  • Find a guy that is literally not a simp.

  • Most of you are quick to end relationships instead of working on then you wonder why things don't last😅

    Have a serious talk you two, for few hours.
    What is it that you both want in a relationship. How you both differ and also what you have in common.
    Is it something he just likes or is it something he had been dreaming for ages. You both are stuck with each other and anything one wants the other is the only one who can provide/help with.

    If he is otherwise good to you and loves you then it shouldn't be too big of a deal for you to consider. Everybody is different and has different kinks.
    It's easy to say no to everything, however why not try to help the person you love live out their life to the fullest. Goes both ways of course.

    I'm just saying, be understanding and try to work on it with him.

  • Lose him asap. He will keep pressing until you do something you will regret. Believe me. It's 2022 perfect time to start over. Love him from a distance

    • Seriously. You'll do something you don't want to just to shut him up. It won't stop there though. Just watch. Dump him for real

  • Dump him. This is disgusting and highly immoral.

  • Not something that I would like to have my SO doing.
    Tell him that he needs to find someone else that loves him to act out his kinks.

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