My boyfriend watches shemale porn and googles tranny ads on Craigslist?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We have a healthy relationship and have been talking about the possibilities of long term relationship goals, such as moving in, marriage, kids, etc. A few months ago I was using his computer to play music when I came across shemale porn. Obviously, it came as a surprise since he's a very masculine guy with little ( if at all) feminine tendencies. I'm usually not one to snoop, but this caught my interest so I decided to dig deeper. I also found that he was googling t4m "looking for top" advertisements on Craigslist in various cities around the country (he doesn't travel, so I found that odd). The porn doesn't bother me AT ALL because everyone has their own fantasies, but the craigslist ads scared me. He hasn't texted, emailed or reached out to any of them. He only looks (and probably jerks off) to them. I tried to lightly bring up the topic one day but he acted disgusted and totally freaked out. I really love this guy and I can't tell if it's just a fantasy or if he actually wants to sleep with a tranny. I just don't want to be cheated on and worry about the possibility of contracting a STD (whether it's from a girl or guy). HELP!!!

[Anonymous]

I am interested in "trannys" as well. I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's a very sensitive subject. I can't blame you for wondering of course, and I'm sure he would feel much better about it to know you're okay with him watching the porn. I also have browsed craigslist ads, and even though I'm single I have yet to hook up with one. Mostly because unfortunately they are almost all prostitues. I'm not saying he's looking for a prostitute, he may not realize that this is the case.

For me personally? I do want to have sex with a tranny. I'm disgusted by the male face, the male body, the male everything. But a woman with a dick? I don't know, I just want to suck it, have "her" cum in my mouth, give that pleasure. It's a desire that as a regular straight man in a relationship you can never satisfy because it would be cheating. Maybe he has no interest in physically doing this, maybe he just likes how it looks. I don't know.

I think the likelyhood of him running off and cheating on you is very low. If he wouldn't buy a regular prostitute, he's not gonna buy a tranny one either lol.

As far as bringing it up? Oh man. I'm sure you understand how insanely hard it can be to admit to someone, especially one you love, that you are into this "disgusting shit". At least in his head he probably feels that way, and he definitely will believe you think that way. Personally? I'm always down to play with my partners fantasies to make them happy. Maybe he likes getting pegged! I know I do and I wish a tranny would fuck me, cuz I can't let a regular man do it. A regular man is just disgusting.

But how to tell him you're ok with it? Fuck if I know, he's gonna hiss and scream and deny his little head off! It's not cuz he's a bad guy, it's cuz he doesn't wanna get judged. Good luck I guess lol. Communication is important, and you leaving the idea that he might cheat in your head is going to destroy the relationship. You're gonna need to either bring it up the fact he's looking on craigslist, or find a way to get over it.

[__Michaelh]

Hi there! Listen, talk to him face to face and get all your feelings out there. Show him what he means to you and ask him how he really feels. A relationship is built on the foundation of trust and tell him it's okay and that he can talk to you. It's probably nothing bad anyway it's just shit some guys to for a change so I really wouldn't worry. Just talk to him

[Anonymous]

There are a considerable amount of guys that like women in general, but are attracted to a penis.

[AustinMan]

It's fantasy. Unless he engages these people, no harm, no foul. Just ignore it.

[bizzz]

I'm sure it's just a fetish of his. If you sense things that question his loyalty then that's something else. He's probably curious if those things that are apart of porn are actually real. Questioning him might scare him off the topic instead of him diving too deep into it, so if he does it again and continues "searching" then that might be a problem

[summiter]

Googling Tranny ads is way weird. You need to have a long and honest talk with him about his sexual needs, desires and expectations... it is ok to talk about sex after all. Keep your guard up!

[Intraluminal]

Like you said, the fantasy is one thing, the reality another, but searching on Craigslist is not good. Particularly since he's looking for a specific role.

[sp33d]

He's just exploring the vastness of the internet. You can relax.

[Skippydales]

That's sick

[USA2016]

Ahhhhhhh!

[AnonGod]

LOL.

[August00]

Women think porn is what we want, its not its fake, all pretend. Don't worry.

[Asiantrash]

I am transsexual. So I can tell you that once he is hooked up with us, there is no escape Hana!! I mean.. there are things that woman can provide to bisexual guy.. shrug..

[Asker]

I mean I've heard that straight men also hook up with transsexuals. If you don't mind me asking, what is it that admirers see in a trans vs a woman?

[Asiantrash]

Personally I have no idea why they are attracted by transsexual but I think they are bisexuals. Bisexuals have a problem with imagining women when they are with woman. They think of men when they have sex with women and women when they are with men. So their brain is kind of screwed. So having sex with opposite gender is perfect.

[Asiantrash]

I mean they think of opposite gender when they have sex

[Intraluminal]

Straight guy's are NOT attracted to anything with a dick. Trust me. This is so.

[Anonymous]

You've got yourself a winner

[Anonymous]

Good taste.

If he's looking in various cities and hasn't actually messaged anyone, I don't know if that's bad. I get why you'd be a bit worried. I just think it's seeing/reading about real trans girls to fuel the fantasy rather than the porn girls that are paid for that sort of thing.