My boyfriend will tell me the sex is amazing one min then terrible the next why is this?

He will tell me afterwards it’s amazing and there’s been so many times it’s amazing. Then in arguments tell me it’s terrible. He said the same about head. That it was so good months ago then from me doing the same thing became so bad.

He tells me he only has sex with cos I’m “so desperate” trying for sex maybe once a day.

But in his previous relationship told me he never stopped having sex and did it 8-10 times a day at points. And at least 3 x each time they seen each other. But calls me desperate for trying once a day. He said sex and head in that relationship was amazing. Better than us etc. Then goes back on it and says we’re better etc.

Is any of this even possible can overnight sex that is the same, same energy, enthusiasm and connection become terrible? Can head that was amazing overnight become terrible when it’s the exact same too with the same levels of enthusiasm etc.

I do notice him seeing off about wanting sex here and there and like it’s the worst thing in the world when I ask for it. And it’s 90% same who starts it. He says he won’t when I’ve annoyed him etc. But he still tries himself daily for quickies. He does get into sex hit it takes time for him to seem into it. He is weird when I tell to kiss him sometimes. Then claims to be too tired by 7pm.
He does start sex once a week ish and seems so keen twice a week. Rest is meh.

Is it true or is he manipulating me
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  • why are you putting up with it?

    this guy sounds like a duch bag and you keep offering hi sex, for him to throw it back in your face. i would have a good think as to whether this is the guy for you, or are you wasting time with him and potentially missing mr Right as you are with him?

Most Helpful Guy

  • He is saying the truth people tend to be honest when angry, ask yourself why is he specifically cause he has no reason to specifically go for that when he could go for something else that means he means what he is saying.

    • GET RID OF THAT IDIOT ASAP

Most Helpful Girl

  • Get the hell out of that relationship. He's treating you like a hooker. Comparing the sex with you to exes and using sex against you in arguments is very immature. Just leave.

    • This, its heartbreaking that some men can never appreciate what they have and someone out there longs for that same love.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeah, get rid girl.

  • read The Sociopath Next Door

  • He is confused and is using you. He is also a bit immature to be hot & cold about sex. I think you can do better.

  • Leave this asshole wtf. That's emotional abuse

  • Its crazy how easy he can manipulate u

  • Guys are idiots, didn't you know 💫

  • B, Have you asked him to explain why he feels that away?