My boyfriend won't let me make him cum?

[amisue10]

He's a virgin and we haven't had sex, but we fool around a lot. Every time i'd give him a bj or hj he'll always stop me before he cums. I've asked him why and he says he doesn't know. I've also asked him if because i'm no good at either, and he told me that i was amazing and its something too do with him, but he doesn't know what. It makes me feel bad, that i can't even get my boyfriend off. Is there any advice or a certain way to approach the topic? please help, thanks!

[summiter]

wow... that does not sound normal. Ask him if he orgasms when he jerks off? Maybe ask him to masturbate for you, that may relax him. Next time you give him a handjob ask him to show you how he does it and to let you know what feels best.

[amisue10]

I've asked him if ever had orgasmed when he jerks off, and he said yeah. I also tried to get him to masturbate in front of me but he wouldn't and claimed he wasn't in the mood. Basically, I've done all of them and he still won't cum.

[summiter]

I would keep trying. Try for a longer bj or if you give him a hj try using some lotion or lube. He will love it. Oce he orgasms once with your help the rest will be easy.

[amisue10]

Okay, thanks!

[summiter]

Have you thought about having sex with him?

[amisue10]

Yeah, we've talked about it, and came extremely close, but something has always happened and we had to stop. Like his parents coming home or mine, oh and his friend walked in on us when we were about too. We just haven't really had long periods of privacy too be able to.

[summiter]

Yeah, I guess the timing has to be right and getting caught by the parents might be a bit awkward. Maybe the reason he has not had an orgasm with you is that things are too rushed. If he is worried about getting caught or performing quickly that may be his problem. When you do have some time. Get naked with him and have lots and I mean lots of foreplay. Explore every inch of each others bodies. Get him ready to orgasm then give him a great handjob or blowjob.

[summiter]

Amisue... let me know how things work out. Send me a message any time and if there is anything that you want to know about guys or ask please let me know. My name is Ian btw. Good luck and please ask me anything anytime.

[slackercruster]

He must have impure thoughts and feels guilty...

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Drop him, he is a bozo! Get a guy that can appreciate you!

[Shadow55151]

He has boundaries that he doesn't want broken.

[Tdieseler]

I've seen that in girls... but not guys... this is interesting

[Nomad93]

@amisue10 he sounds like a bitch to me i'm also a virgin but if I had a girl even somewhat interested i'd be banging her right now. I wouldn't be stopping you i'd be blowing load after load i'm probably the horniest virgin on this site. I can crank it for an hour or more sometimes before I get off and other times I will touch myself time and time again until I am exhausted and have blown multiple loads. I don't get why he stops you its natural... Weird

[PiuBelloAmante]

It's not you its him, he is not allowing you to the distance!. He may also be desensitized from watching p*rn and masturbating. that's actually pretty common now days. You will surely make him cum if you decide to make love!. Best of luck next time when he tells you to stop just tell him to close his eyes and relax. keep doing what you are doing!

[Brian223]

This isn't uncommon, I for one would have a hard time doing it as well. We call it "cum shy". Kinda what someone else said, he doesn't know what you will think of it, whether it's gross or not. I suggest you telling him you want to see it. I think that's going to be your best bet.

[lkjhg69cum]

Sounds like he is scare to complete the act by cumming. Is he a very religious guy or from a very religious home? If not, he may be a bit screwy in the head. Any guy who gives himself blue balls on purpose, and does it every time is nuts!!! Blue balls sucks!

[meatballs21]

He might be worried you're going to find his splooge disgusting and not want to do it again.

[countrydude]

Just let him know its ok to cum. Tell him you want to see him cum. Ask him what feels the best when plaing with him. Then keep doing it.

[moviedude714]

thats very weird of him

[Anonymous]

This prove that he loves you. :)