My boyfriends chest muscles are bigger than my boobs?

I'm so self conscious I have small A cup tits and there is literally nothing there. I could easily get wanna with wearing no bra. As there is nothing to support it. My boyfriend is really muscular and has really big chest muscles. All my friends bully me about this and sometimes I cry. I don't know what to do, do I break up with him or save up and get a boob job. Please help
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  • Don't get a boob job. Also if you like each other don't break up with him, the issue is your confidence.

    I'm currently living through a ton of insecurity over having a micropenis. I mean, i may never ever find a girl who is willing to accept me for who i am. That's really scary. But that doesn't stop me from seeing i have a beautiful body. I wouldn't trade my penis for any other in the world, despite making my life easier. There are girls out there right now with happy lives who have said absolutely devastating things to me. I've had an eating disorder, gone through phases of self mutilation... it has been really rough, trust me.

    Just take a step back and realize that you have someone who accepts you for who you are, and i know you can learn to love your own beautiful self.

    And just for the record, even if i didn't think a cups were amazing, as long as a girl could look past the micropenis and love all my parts i would never judge her for hers.

    If you ever want to unload your insecurities on me or anything I'm around. I have a lot of experience. I hope the best for you :)

    ❤❤❤

  • Obviously I'm not your boyfriend, but I'd be much happier with real A-cups than with fake boobs, and even though I love boobs, the size of yours wouldn't hinder me from dating you (obviously other things might, but that's another issue).

    Though it doesn't sound to me like your boyfriend has any issues - it's your friends - other girls I assume, who are giving you a hard time. Sadly, that's typical - many women hate to see another woman happy if they aren't, and will go to work to tear her down instead of trying to improve her own situation (they want to be at your level, but instead of working UP to that, they'd rather tear you down.

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  • For one any type of surgery is extremely risky and if you're going to waste money on cosmetic surgery and risk the complications of infection or death then that's up to you. If you choose to end a relationship over something so trivial then that is also up to you. Your body is perfectly fine the way you are as long as you'r healthy. If you're healthy you don't need any more or any less of what you have. If your friends are true friends tell them to stop making fun of you because it hurts, if they don't stop they're sucky friends and you should kick them out of your life. You need to learn how to love yourself and not care what other people think. If you can't accept yourself no amount of cosmetic surgery is going to fix your terrible self esteem. I guarantee you you, your friends are only doing this to get a rise out of you. If you stop giving them what you want and embrace yourself they'll stop. If you have this attitude of idgaf what you say, my breasts are small and cute and I love them, they'll lose whatever satisfaction they get from teasing you and leave you alone.

  • These people are not your friends for bullying you this way. Or maybe they just don't realize the harm they are causing.
    The first step towards feeling better about this is accepting it, be like "Yes, I have little boobs so what?" It is just who you are, accept yourself and you will be at peace.
    Big or little... What is better? Well none. That is just a matter of point of view. I know for a fact many guys who prefere little boobs.
    You also have to focus on your other assets, things YOU find to be good looking in you...

    Stop comparing boobs with pecks... That is completely different and just can't be compared... Pondr on this and good luck x

  • I was an A cup and used to hate it but but then my mother had a word with me to say that real men don't care. it didn't stop plenty of women I know from meeting guys and having great careers. I had to go on the contraceptive pill as my periods were unbearable and that took me up to a B but I had to get rid of lots of pretty bras. And it hurt too, my chest was very sore. That settled down soon enough though I started to realise what my body allowed me to do. Play sports, sign language, walk , swim, dance and have fun with friends. A cup bras are always cheapest in the sales and there are lots of choices.

  • Well if he's dating you then I highly doubt he cares so I don't know why you would consider breaking up with him just because of that. It's your "friends" bullying you, not your boyfriend. I think you should consider getting new friends.

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  • Don't you see how many women are considered hot that have small breasts?

    Rihanna , Iggy, Miley Cyrus (I don't think she's hot but some people may), Jessica Alba , Shakira, Sasha Grey and many more.

    The key is confidence.
    By being insecure you're drawing attention to yourself.

  • You get a little therapy and learn to love your body. Once you do, then decide if you want to go buy a pair of larger ones. My lady and one before have had it done and they love it. Just don't go overboard. A full D cup is plenty and will fit most bras and clothes.

  • does he like your boobs the way they are? if he does, then don't worry about it. they're just jealous cuz their boyfreinds have little whimpy chests :D hehe. dont let it get to you. small boobs are awesome! and you should love them :)

  • Seriously, you do neither. I prefer small tits and I would shoot you if you got a boob job and if you broke up with me i'd seriously think that you valued your image more than our relationship, cause I don't see any problem with small boobs.

  • Break up with your friends they suck. I mean " bully" that's self explanatory.

  • Lol I kno its weird that his are bigger, but his chest sounds sexy af. Screw your friends. They just mad cause they dont get to lay up on those babies at night haha

  • don't break up with him and don't save up to get a boob job. learn to love what you have. your friends are bitches and boobs don't matter that much.

  • You are just being stupid you really going to pick a bunch of assholes over someone who cares and not treating you like shit? really so your friendship with these cunts are more value then to someone who loves you for who you are? you lady need to learn the hard way because clearly you haven't experience who you should value and who you should not.

  • No, don't worry about it. Every girl have flaw so you no different. I think just be you and he love you more than anythjng. The most important thing a relationship is caring

  • wow seriously. who fucking cares if his pecks are bigger than your boobs. he's a fucking guy. save your mental health capacity and save your money, just get over it.

  • Those small boobs are your boobs. Rock 'em.

    Guys don't care about size as much as y'all think.

    • damn, i've been flauntin' them for nothin' then.

    • @teawrecks Nahhh. We love tits of all sizes. =]

  • Love your body. It's yours. Be proud of your looks. Don't allow others to belittle them. As for your boyfriend, he's with you, not your friends. :)

  • Dont stress about it. I have really small boobs too. So do a lot of girls. It's oaky

  • get some new friends

  • Don't do either. Be proud of your body. And who you are. Don't let them get to you.

  • Trust me we don't care about size as much as you think, and no you shouldn't break up with him because of your own mental insecurities nor should you waste money on a boob job, be thankful for what you have and accept them.

  • "do I break up with him or save up and get a boob job"

    Neither of these. You dump your friends because friends don't insult their friends to make them cry.

  • It's between you and your boyfriend, don't ruin your relationship, and those who bully you about it they are just jealous of your happy relationship, cause of their fucking miserable life. And they are not your friends, you are in wrong company you need new and better people to be with.

  • Your boobs are just fine don't compare. Your boygriend obviously doesn't and must be perfectly happy with you just as you are...

    • boyfriend*

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