My brother in law wants me to go home? I didn't do anything wrong?

[Anonymous]

Im an 18 year old beautiful girl, I stay at my sisters house sometimes she has two small kids my nephew and niece and i like to be around them my depression goes away, my younger sisters usually fight with me at home and my mom isn't ok and fights with me too. So i rather stay at my sisters house I sleep there and hang out, after colleg. Well, i dont really talk to my brother in law and it’s kinda awkward he told my sister that I should leave and I’m not allowed to stay I just don’t understand why I go to the guest room he always stares at me. I don’t know why he’s so bothered by my presence. I help my sister out too

[Anonymous]

Either it's that there's something about that situation or you he doesn't like or that gives him grief. Or that you're young, hot and sexy, he's watching you cos you're sexy and checking you out which is causing him fantasies and/or sexual frustration, and as he's with your sister it's easier for him to avoid. Tbh i had a similar problem with my ex's 19y/o sister. She used to be suggestive, tease, and we'd talk about sex stuff... also 'accidentally' sent me some pics once, has drunkenly flashed me for a laugh and I caught her masturbating once!! (that ones still one of my hottest memories from life 😂😂).

[Asker]

Oh ok never thought of that

[red_knight]

Take it as a blessing, he either wants to havd marital relations with his wife and wants space, or he's fighting the urge to feel you up.. Either way.. Spend less time in that house, sleep over at your house and your younger sister should get under your skin much less but talk to her kindly

[Asker]

Yeah that’s I’m gonna do

[Asker]

Thanks

[red_knight]

Most welcome and be careful

[Asker]

Wdym be careful?

[red_knight]

You shouldn't be alone with your bro In law, he can frame you or rape you.. Best keep distance for a while sincd you said you don't talk to him so he must not be having the friendliest opinion of you

[Asker]

Thanks I will

[LeeKenz]

What relevance did you saying you're beautiful have? Like are you really that stuck up that you felt the need to say that?

[Asker]

So is it considered stuck up to think I’m beautiful? Wtf is wrong with people everyone is beautiful! How come it’s wrong that I said I’m beautiful?

[LeeKenz]

You're stuck up when you add for no reason whatsoever

[Asker]

Get a life and work on your self esteems

[Asker]

Esteem *

[LeeKenz]

Lol wtf? My self esteem is actually pretty good. You have no need to get pissy at me with asking a simple question like fuck.

[Animesh911]

Well they are married and is a chance that he might feel you being a hurdle in their private life.

[Asker]

Yeah but he’s fine with my sister she’s 15

[Animesh911]

You said you live with them. Your other sister might just visit for a day or 2. That is the key difference. Being a guest and being a permanent residence.

[Asker]

I don’t literally live I stay sometimes on weekends

[Animesh911]

Hmm. Well, in that case, the problem might be more deep rooted than you think

[Asker]

I don’t know

[Asker]

Deep rooted can u elaborate?

[Animesh911]

Maybe its something that he does not like about you. It could be anything. He might not like your behaviour, or the amount you involve yourself in their personal life and discussion. I suggest, you talk it with your sister. Or, I am not sure, it could be the fact that your sister does not want you around and is using her husband as an excuse because she is unable to confront you herself.

[Asker]

Nah my sister loves me and would never I never even discuss with them about their life

[Animesh911]

What ever the case is, you need to talk it with her

[bangyourhead]

What is your sister's opinion on you staying there?

[Asker]

She’s totally fine with it

[bangyourhead]

Well it's really between them. Don't let his stares get to you.

[Asker]

Yeah I just ignore it

[Cowboy6666]

You are 18 and beautiful I got your point babe 😜

[Asker]

Nah I’m asking why he wants me to leave I didn’t do anything

[Cowboy6666]

He doesn't like you, you can stay at my home then.

[Asker]

Lmao ok but I didn’t do anything

[Cowboy6666]

I can understand he is annoyed

[neville78]

Come live with me

[GirlBumSniffer]

U make him hard

[Asker]

Just no

[GirlBumSniffer]

What other explanation? He doesn't trust himself around u