My brother’s girlfriend molested me when I was a kid but I’m afraid he won’t believe me?

When I was 5 years old I remember that my brother who was 19 years old was living with his girlfriend in a tiny apartment. My brother and i used to love each others so during the summer holidays my parents will send me to spend few weeks with with him, the heck is that he was working during the morning so he would ask his girlfriend to watch over me, and she would take advantage of his absence to touch me and I still remember the day when she forced me to give her oral, or when she would force me to watch some lesbian porn with her while i was only 6 years old! I was so ashamed that I never had the courage to report her to my brother even if he was asking everytime if I was ok because he noticed that despite the summer I wasn’t smiling anymore, and I was more confused when I see him kissing her in front of me, the same way she was kissing me. She continued to molest me whenever my brother bring her home and we are alone till I reached the age of 10, and now I am 18 and I can say that I became homophobic because of the shit she have done to me and I even hate my brother because he never noticed what his girlfriend did! I once faced her by telling her that I will tell my brother everything and this bitch replied that he would never believe me because he’s in love with her. They are both 32 right now and I am shaking because he tell that he want to marry her but I don’t want this freak to be my sister in law. I don’t know if he can believe me, I mean... would you believe your sister if she tell you something like that? Or is it too late?
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  • ITS NEVER EVER TO LATE!! I would report it to the authorities, and the hell with her threat, and if your brother loves you he will listen to you, and wether he believes you or not, remember this, you are the victim and you did nothing wrong, you were just a kid and taken advantage of you. I believe you, and abuse teaches us to be ashame of what the abuser did to us. Its a scarr to carry but you dont have too, get counseling and the more you talk about the abuse with the cousellor the easier it will get for you, but it takes time so go at your own paste in healing. Charge the bitch and if your brother goes against you, then you know who loves you and not loves you. You just need authority support, and i am behind you 100% percent!! Dont let this bitch control what you have now in your life, you are worth it. Sue her, and charge her ass. But dont react to her threat, or accusations that aren't your fault ok. Be calm, and try to lash out in front of your brother or her or your family. Some people would believe you, some will.. the important thing about this is you! You need to recover from this truama you have indure. Be kind to yourself, YOU DID NOTHING WRONG! THAT GIRLFRIEND DID AND TOOK YOUR INNOCENT AWAY FROM YOU!! AS A CHILD!! So fight for you, and regardless if it goes to court or not or the system or famy or friend fails you... YOU REPORTED IT AND CAME OUT BY LETTING EVERYONE KNOW THIS BITCH IS AN ABUSER AND CALL HER ON IT! THATS WOULD BE REMARKABLE AND TRUTH IN THAT FACT!! Who is she going to do it next too? Her own kids? If she ends up marrying your brother? So be kind to you. Hope all goes well for you.

    • Thank you so much. That’s truly a blessing to read your com. You gave me faith in humanity ❤️

    • Hey, i meant dont lash out to the girlfriend, or family and friends. And i meant, some people would believe your story, but others may never believe your story. Sorry for my mistake on my comment, i just get very upset when an adult does abuse on a child and the child gets the bad part of it! through life and the abuser thinks its great and they go on living like nothing has happend. You are one brave victim, and i am here to support you, even though i am from another country, you have my full support.

    • Hey, thanks for the MHO.

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  • It's simple..

    Talk to your brother and tell him about it..
    1) he needs to know,..
    I know he won't believe you!..
    But if you alert him.. He will look out for red flags to her being a pedophile

    2) tell him.. You have no problem with him marrying her..
    Just one thing from the day of engagement when he puts ring on her!..
    He is no longer your brother!..
    And train yourself girl!.. With weapons and other stuff.. Because family get together could go ugly..
    Either you can be the Thanksgiving turkey or you can be a Haunted Halloween for that bitch

  • If he ends up with that Bitch he's done for. U have to avenge urself and save ur brother. Try to strike up that conversation again with her but this time record it

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  • Of course you should tell him. What if they get married and have a daughter?

    • I want to tell him but I’m afraid he would hate me or he won’t believe me, because I know that it’s unbelievable

    • So? If he chooses his pedophile molester girlfriend over you then is it worth staying on good terms with him? And it really isn't that unbelievable. If it's too hard talk to him in person you could try sending him a letter, text, or email. I think it's an important part of getting closure for yourself too. Let me know how it goes.

  • Tell him, or at least record it

  • Call the law on her request for her to be locked in asylum of crazy people