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My brothers carer giving him hand jobs?

My brother is 21 and is partly paralysed and in a wheel chair. He can't do much on his own, and unfortunately masturbating is one of them... anyway, yesterday i walked in on his carer giving him a hand job? i was totally grosed out, the lady is like 50 years old. I didn't stick around to ask questions, i apologized and shut the door, but then when i asked him what the hell was going on later that day he told me she just gives him hand jobs to relieve him because he cant? he said its nothing between him and the carer at all she is just helping him... should i be weirded out of just think nothing of it? is it normal for a carer to do that for someone in his state?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • A caregiver shouldn't be performing any sexual acts on anyone. Since he is in a vulnerable state, she's technically sexually abusing him, even if he did consent to it. She can be sued or lose her job for that. I'm practically appalled about this. How long has this been going on?

  • Probably weird but hey if he ever gets a girl friend maybe she could have sex with him until then who is it hurting

  • I would feel so bad for him that he has to have his care giver to help him with that since he's paralyzed. :(

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's an awesome carer! Is a bit weird but it's so cool. How the hell is your brother gonna get some? Did you know some sex workers actually have this as an option: "cater for the disabled" sex workers: many of them are awesome people.

  • As I understand, this practice is pretty widespread but not spoken of.

    In fact, in my country, some care homes hire prostitutes (prostitution is legal here). It was in the news a while back, though it wasn't 'new' at all.

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  • Probably not normal but I suppose eh... we really can't judge him can we...
    Imagine being partly paralyzed at the age of twenty-fucking-one.

  • That's fuckin awesome. I wanna give that lady a high five✋

  • Let him have his one form of relief

  • his life his rules bro... anyway it's gross in my opinion, but he might like it... is it wrong?

    • It's illegal as fuck. In the eyes of the law she is sexually abusing him, even if he consented.

    • @Xelebrum He's 21, paralyzed and it was at his request. She should be given a medal.

  • That's really weird. And I'm pretty damn sure that is unethical conduct, regardless if they're both adults or not.

  • I would be weirded out - It is not appropriate for a carer to do that.

  • It is inappropriate

  • He told you it's at his request? What's the problem? Lol

  • I wouldn't condemn the carer in any way.

  • I wouldn't worry about it

  • So weird, but if he wants it and she's willing, then I don't really see a problem. He is paralyzed!

  • im happy for your brother tho

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