My catholic boyfriend doesn’t want to use a condom?

Question

We are not sexually active. He is a devout catholic and told me he doesn’t want to use and contraceptives. To me this seems crazy. What do you guys think?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

Well for many catholics that I know of, contraceptives are just "the devil stuff"

And many of them also like to have as many babies as possible, so this is part of why I have hundreds of relatives, about 15 uncles/aunts or something like that... lol.

So if he is this devout, be prepared for this and some more to come your way.

HeyMikeyLikesIt · Accepted Answer

well if he's so devout then he would wait until marriage, and not do any type of sodemy which includes head and stuff like that, so he's just saying that so he doesn't have to use a condom

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

Wow, He seems so out of touch with the real world. You will have to try and educate him. If he continues to say that he won’t use contraceptive and if you don’t wish to become pregnant then of course you must take care of contraception yourself.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Sounds like bullshit to me. He just wants raw sex. If he's such a devout Catholic, he won't HAVE premarital sex. He'll wait until after marriage.

Has he had sex already? Well then he's no devout Catholic.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

DEAL BREAKER

DaisyM23 · Answer

Definitely crazy. But a lot of religions are against the use of contraception. Don’t do anything if you’re not comfortable with how you do it

nachosaresexy · Answer

Seems like an immature point of view. Try talking it through with him, to help him see it from your point of view as a female.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

He is a fuckwit, just tell him no sex. then start looking for a new boyfriend. there is no other way. he’s a fuckwit of epic proportions

aloebella · Answer

Break up with him if you don't want to end up pregnant. Think about it, if you marry you will have to give birth to 34985734857 kids. I think he must respect you, the baby is not something that easy.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

this

GingerGuy · Answer

To me that would mean the person wants children. Have you asked him what he wants if you got pregnant?

Dargil · Answer

Get his driver's license number and let him know that you will not abort and he will be compelled to pay nativity expenses and 18 years of child support.

bowenw · Answer

It's your body so you make the rules. If he is a devout catholic isn't he supposed to abstain from sex until marriage?

lucyloo76 · Answer

Well he will not want sex then.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well i dont use condoms n yet i only got pregnant when i wanted to

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

Stupid, then he should not do sex at all whntile mariage and even afther just for making kids.

Kabluie · Answer

I went to Catholic school, and one Sunday church when I was younger we had a guest priest, and his homily was all about "family planning". The active teaching is that contraception is just not in the teachings and that couples should embrace menstrual cycles for making love without pregnancy. My mom never took stock in that, we had open dialogues about sex, and she would tell me to use condoms and/or ensure the girl is on the pill.

genericname85 · Answer

i think you are completely right in thinking this is crazy. don't have sex with the guy without a condom! if he's not gonna do it, move on. it sucks but that shit is just not worth wasting your time with. you can do better.