My crush did drugs over the summer and lost her virginity with some random dude?

Question

So there is this girl that I kinda like and we were supposed to see a movie over the summer but she would always say that she is busy with work and shit so I pretty much gave up on that. When school started again she was grounded and her phone was taken away, I asked her why and she didn't tell me. However, my friend told me why, it's because she did drugs over the summer and she also lost her virginity. I guess her mom found out about it. So all of my respect for her has gone into the trash. Should I pretend like I don't know and keep being friends with her (and maybe ask her to prom). Or should I just forget about her?

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

so she had some new experiences that you dont approve of and you lose respect for her as a person? ok i think you are quite uptight, but that's just me. or maybe you aren't uptight, but you would have rather she be upfront and tell you she isn't interested?

anyway its safe to say that you are not compatible so dont be fake and ask her to prom, just forget about her, move on and find a girl more your speeed

alaysatlorp · Accepted Answer

Dude she just had some fun you should be happy for her! There's nothing wrong with trying some drugs and losing her virginity. Serious dude don't hate on her just cuz she wanted to try new shit.

TokyoGhoulLover · Accepted Answer

uhh key word being 'Crush' and not 'Girlfriend'? I'd say it's your call. I mean yeah it hurts, but you guys aren't a thing so you should at least Attempt to stay friends if you really want to.

Ripper_E · Accepted Answer

You lost respect for her because she lost her virginity or because she was on drugs? For me, it would be the drugs. Don't get me wrong, the virginity part would be a bummer, I understand that feeling, but that's not a reason to lose respect for someone.

Saoirse_Nua · Accepted Answer

Dude, she just experimented with drugs and lost her virginity - She didn't become a crack whore - Chill, if you still like her, keep being her friend and see how it goes.

sunshinechyk · Answer

Move on. You can find better.

AleDeEurope · Answer

She sounds shitty. I wouldn't like to hang around that type of people, and even less make them my girlfriend.

Chico_brah · Answer

Just fcking relax dude. She prly smoked some weed and fcked a dude. Typical teenage shit.

Bandit74 · Answer

Just move on or maybe try to be fwbs with her.  You probably weren't going to get married to her anyways.

RedVulcan · Answer

Welp. She's trash mate. I'd instantly lose all my respect for her.

LivingLife94 · Answer

What's wrong with sex and smoking weed?

Touchmehxx · Answer

You lost your respect for her why?

Dimmu · Answer

yea you pretend you dont know you dont know her at all, as if she is a ghost

Marinepilot · Answer

Dump her ass and find someone you can trust. She isn't worthy of you.

dudegrt09 · Answer

Yeah she is not interested in you that is for sure... She gave priority to that other guy and drugs over you.. You can still be friends but don't be anything more than that

LoveHorses · Answer

Lol, maybe she just smoke weed and sex is not a horrible thing despite what the Christians are telling us. Sounds like you're freaking out over nothing.

HeckYeah · Answer

Yeah sounds like an immature boy wrote this

RockRules · Answer

Not sure if you're uptight/controlling or if you're a troll

Anonymous · Answer

Move on, there's so many girls out there, let some other sucker have at her

Anonymous · Answer

first of all this girl put the guy over you anyways, so that means that she didn't really like you like that if she put you on the back burner. its best to chase another girl, many fish in the sea