My crush is over me?

[Anonymous]

Before anything, is there a way to change the age title? I ain't 42 lmfao I just made a profile real quick years ago. I'm 27 I assure you all.

Girl likes me has a crush, can't be normal around me no matter what meaning can't be herself ever. She blushes can't look me in the eyes etc. I break this vicious cycle by fist bumping her and calling her bro which I never do. She pauses and looks at my fist then fist bumps with a sobby tone 'okay' and leaves. She stalked me a little then left. 2 days later I want to explain what I did. I prefer being friends before dating, I get to know the person without pressure to get so physical and, depending if she wants that yet or just get to know me. Anyways 2 days after my days off. I approach her and ask her if we could talk privately, she says for what, I say for fist bumping you and calling you bro at work while you were about to cry (last part wasn't included). She just laughs and says so. I tell her okay so you are alright and she says yeah why wouldn't I be. I look at her and end it with okay are you sure you are okay and she says yeah. I end it with let me know if you want to talk and ahe says okay.

I don't buy it, she can lose her crush to me, but there is no way she is okay. What can I do to just help her vent on me. I'm fine with just being only friends without it being something else in the future. I just want her vent she is a good girl and it pisses me off boys and girls. Advice most appericated!

[WhitneySnow]

Hello FW. There’s nothing you can do. If she says she’s over you and she’s good with just being friends you have to take her word for it and move on too.

[Asker]

Sorry 8 hour manual labour. What I meant to say is I'm her crush. And I'm wondering if she is over me. If she is. God Bless her take care.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m really not sure. She could be telling the truth. But either way she’s gonna stop bothering you and stalking you, which is what you wanted. Cheer up. You should be happy 😊.

[Asker]

I doubt it's over with. I am actually now working on a completely different floor. She needs to vent I don't know how much longer before she loses it. If you're interested, I can dm you and really explain the situation. I have explained it to a few guya and all they can say is what a f*ck feast.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m good. Thanks. But good luck. I hope she doesn’t keep bothering you.

[Asker]

Haha no worries. It's really complicating. Well I saw her and she did her hair today. I have to ask. Is she actually in love with me? As in love at first sight? Is this why this whole situation is so screwed up?

[WhitneySnow]

Probably more like infatuation than love. I mean, clearly you don’t love her back.

[Asker]

Love? I don't even know the girl's last name or anything other than her name. How can anyone fall in love without knowing anything about them. I don't love on looks I believe if a woman exercises and takes care of herself she will be 'pretty' so personality is what I'm after since I am aiming to be a father one day.

[WhitneySnow]

More likely infatuation. Not love.

[WhitneySnow]

But that’s cool that you’re focusing on personality and not looks.

[Asker]

So how much longer can this go on? Will she quit? Or just think of ways to finally talk to me like a normal human being? Has she got the message by the way?