There are two issues here to explore.
1=your crush doesn't take you seriously. How is that? Does he know that you like him?
Have you led him on but not delivered? Have you asked him out? Why aren't you two getting cozy?
2=You are a virgin. Waiting for marriage. Religious beliefs aside, why would you wait for marriage?
Like you said , it wouldn't matter if your crush was not a virgin, so why would it matter if you weren't?
I , and others, recommend trying before buying. You should know what your sexual needs are
BEFORE you lock yourself into the marriage contract. Sex is a big part of marriage or any serious
relationship. If there are any sexual compatibility issues, then the relationship will be rocky and doomed.
I have personally observed and been a part of such incompatibilities. They just can't be worked out.
For my recommendation of your problem:I would find a way to get closer to your crush, find a way to make him your steady. Then have sex with him, if you think you are up to it. I regret not having sex with a few girls because I was too strongheaded. Every one that you don't get is one that is forever lost.
I told hin I like him and even ask him out but he just change the topic. No religious believe, I just want something special for my future husband instead of a jerk. My problem is having sex with him now would be a bad idea if I want a relationship since he'll leave after he get what he wants. Further advice please?
Ok. I didn't know your crush was a jerk. So it should be easier for you to redirect your attentions to be on the lookout for MR Right. Crush might be dreamy looking, but you are right to wait at least until you find someone more special, hopefully that you are in love with. You will know when it is right. I still do recommend that you consider trying sex before marriage, for the previously stated reasons. Just not any random guy, tho.
Having sex to get him to like you is a bad idea. It won't get him to like you, it'll just get him to leave after he gets what he wants if that is in fact all he wants. If he does actually like and respect you, then he'll stick around if you tell him that you want to wait.
exactly I know that. Why buy a cow if you can get free milk? How to tell him I want a relationship before sex?
If he asks you or tries to do something sexual you just tell him you don't want to do it and explain why.
Fully recommend you don't do it. I done the exact same thing as you're thinking. Completed back fired ended with him telling me he'd never date me. The following week he invited me to his to chill and because I wouldn't put out he forced me to have sex with him. He wasn't worth the pain.
Get into a relationship with someone, wait until YOU feel ready and take the next step. Any guy that truly respects you should wait untill you're ready for it.
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