I have had sexual intercourse with neither my current boyfriend or my ex. My ex could insert a finger. I told I was worried about how tight I am down there but he reassured me everything was ok.
My current boyfriend is a virgin in his late 20s. He cannot insert a finger or get anything up there. He wants me to go to the doctors.
What do you guys think of this? Should I book a doctors appointment?
Well you can never be sure so it's not a bad idea to get confirmation from your gyno. Second well he is probably scared to do that, he feels you are tight and since he doesn't have experience with that he is probably both consciously and subconsciously afraid of hurting you. Do visit the gyno just for the sake of it, not gonna lose anything for doing that and as for your boyfriend i think you should simply finger yourself just to show him that you will be ok. he cares about you and lacks knowledge and experience so don't be afraid to take the lead in this since do you some experience. Show him how you do it and guide him, reassure him by showing him you will be ok
I think a doctor would be a good idea. I have no idea on this one.
healthcare worker here and to properly insert you have to be turned on enough, will ensure you are relaxed enough and wet enough. he sounds scared and or unsure what he is doing or of hurting you. so talk him through it and or also allow him to see you masturbate and get lube as well to help the process.
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Show him how to do it. It is not brain surgery.
If you're wet it shouldn't be a problem.
Can you get a finger in there? Maybe try to coach your boyfriend and use some lube? Are you at least able to fool around like oral sex or handjobs?
did you try and see yourself how tight you may be and did you try a toy with lots of lube you may just be too dry as well
It might not be you his fingers might be too big or he don’t know what’s he is doing.
Astroglide.
Lol that reminds me when I was there when baby popped out
I ask the doctor put a extra stich
I would not advise that
My wife was so tight it felt like I was tearing the skin off my Dick
I said bc this to ask you are you that tight
Sorry! it sounds funny, why not you insert your own finger and check it? Dont you get your period? Are you making us fool? LOL
I get my period, but I’ve never inserted a finger or tampon as it feels like a wall… but my ex said I have no issue so I don’t know
why not you try yourself?
You're at least 18 and you've never questioned this on your own, nor has it come up with your doc? I'm not buying it.
There are medical conditions that might explain it if it's really tight. Have a chat with your doc.
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