My dad called me a whore should I just stop talking to him?

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Utahslastbadboy · Accepted Answer

You should confront him about it and demand an apology from him emediatly. He has no right to ever call you that regardless of his opinion on the matter or how he see's you personally as his daughter. He should respect you the same as he expects you to respect him as your father and any faults you may have can be accredited to him as a father for not being a beter father to you as a young girl growing up in today's society.!! He should have taught you better shown you better been there for you so you didn't make said mistakes in his eye's by setting a better example for you of what to look for in a man not in men in general sexually speaking he should of held himself to higher standards of behavior. And you as well to set your own standards personally in your own eye's to his hopes of that value he see's and has allways seen in you as his daughter and that little girl you will allways be to him! He doesn't deserve your respect because he doesn't and did not respect you by calling you a white. Regardless of what he though at that time before or here after. He doesn't have to like it or approve of your choices but he could be supportive of you &all therefore? Expect of you to make right choices in your relationships! That you would know would make him proud of you in any relationship or direction you choose to follow in your life as a young woman or adult to say anything about your behavior is only a reflection of his as a parent! And a poor father!

Snowman666 · Accepted Answer

You give way to little information for a clear outlook so i guess i will make wild assumptions to give you an awnser. First off this isn't the whole story so what is? second you should never be involving your father in your sexual life and maybe your father is just trying to shock you into making better decisions. A fathers dissapointment is ment to make you strive for better. So he clearly thinks you did something wrong. Look inward if you did something wrong to someone and reflect on it. Then sit down with your father and talk to him. Losing a father over a single word is childish. Again you gave very little to work off of. Good luck.

Alpha09 · Accepted Answer

Ugh if he has an issue with you and resorts to that then he can go fuck himself. Your 21 and if he didn't try and actually talk to you about whatever his problem is like a mature adult then he's not worth your time. Also I don't think he'd call a stranger that to thier face, so that says a lot about his respect for his adult daughter. If it's because you are living your life and sleeping with whoever you want, as in other single people then he's out of line.

Ibeji · Accepted Answer

If that’s what would help you mentally and emotionally. No matter what choices or mistakes you’ve made, he’s your dad, and he should help and guide you rather than attack you.

Plus, if you want to be a “whore” (by men’s standards), I say be a whore! Just be a physically healthy and sexually safe whore.

AustinMan · Answer

That's one option. The other is to sit him down and tell him that while you respect him as your father, he doesn't get to say things like that to you.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Was he right?

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Wait... what? I just read some of the comms here... u have 3 ba ies with 3 diff fathers? if is true i wouldve call you the same sweetheart, no offence, but i understand,1 c'mon maybe 2, but 3? Where was your brain? On the guy's member? and plus u replied to someone that he HE SHOULD HELP WHEN U GO OUT TO GET LAID? REALLY? if u were my Daughter i wouldve called u the same! No offence! C'mon ure 21 not the otherway round! Wake up damn it!
Find a proper guy and settle down.. u'll end up bad if you continue like this... at least use a condom... or a pill or something! What u want? A kindergarden?

ohshee · Answer

Why did he say it

BarryMcKohkner · Answer

No, he's probably telling you the truth. But you're young so you don't want to hear it. Probably his last attempt at getting you to not sleep around and get any more baby daddies. Trying to keep you from never growing up

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

jiffybutter · Answer

No but I don't think you should act like he didn't say anything. Just be respectful but cold. Unless you are a whore in which case you should stop being one.

slatyb · Answer

Or you can tell him that it's unacceptable. When he makes a similar remark end the conversation.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Yes he's a loser

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

All depends on why he called you a whore, honey. And how he called you a whore. For example...

1. He walks in on you blowing 5 guys and yells "Stop that, you WHORE!!!"

OR...

2. He says "Sweetheart, i heard that 5 guys at work were blown by you. If you aren't careful, you will be considered to be a whore."

Big difference between 1 and 2.

ManOnFire · Answer

You're not giving us the full scoop on this.  Why  did he call you a whore?

supercutebutt · Answer

Did he find out about the math teacher?

oddwaffle · Answer

On the bright side, he is now a father of a whore. His life long ambition achieved. He should buy himself a cake. What did you do by the way?

Tmoney24 · Answer

Maybe he wants to fuck you

I-have-a-biscuit · Answer

Are you?

Nik1hil · Answer

Than stop acting and dressing like one..  Unless you enjoy being whore  Than do whatever you want

cth96190 · Answer

Why did he call you a whore?

CasaNorba · Answer

you could if you want to. though I would analyze the reason why he called you that and once you do then obviously stop doing it because after all a daughter must have done something really bad if she inspired her own father to call her a whore