My dad wants me to be a virgin?

My dad tries to persuade me and say i shouldn't be having sex. I can't even sneak having sex, he's always nosy, he is a cockblock. I am so sexually frustrated, i feel like punching somebody
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Superb Opinion

  • He's hoping that he can prevent you from knocking up some random girl that you never had any real feelings for, much less any long-term commitment with, and then being stuck with her and a kid forever, and certainly on the hook financially. And while I disagree with his methods, I agree with his motivation.

    Instead of trying to convince your dad that you are ready to have sex, convince him that you are aware of the risks and danger, and then tell him how and why you would take responsibility to ensure no pregnancy occurs. Also show him that you are responsible in other ways. He clearly doesn't see you as being mature and responsible, so you are going to have to prove yourself. Do that, and he's going to stop hassling you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Zach... you are an adult and need to make your own decisions. It is your body and your life. Has he said anything about jerking off or is he ok with that. As you know all guys your age (and most likely your dad) masturbate frequently but most will never admit it. As far as sex, you will know when the time is right for you with the right girl. What are your thoughts?

    • I agree

    • When it is the right girl, everything will line up. When I ask the girl on a date she will say yes, after a couple dates, thats when sex just happens.

    • You will love it, sex and a great orgasm with it is a gift. Enjoy it when it does happen. Do not forget to use a condom every time!

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's not really any of his business and he doesn't need to know about it. Just tell him you are and do what you want.

  • Lol do u really need to tell him huhh there could be so many ways

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Really? I'm a dad. I told my son to "sow wild oats" when he's ready.

    Perhaps different upbringing.

    To me guys should start his sex life early, but girls should wait (hence I encourage my girl to save her virginity). (I know I'm hypocritical. But that's a personal belief.)

    • if i have 17 year old son, im not gonna stop him from having sex

  • Nope. This isn't on your dad. This is on you. He can want you to be a virgin but you have the choice not to be.

  • Being a virgin, celibate, pussy free wimp is a noble undertaking, and I applaud you for reaching this point in your lifetime. Keep up the good work!

    • Sir I am virgin and 24

  • 19 years old?

    Congratulations you are legally (at least in the US) an adult. You can make adult decisions and suffer adult consequences.

    Have sex - risk getting an STD, unplanned pregnancy or dragged into a domestic homicide nightmare.

  • If you are over 18, its entirely your choice. You don't have to, and in fact shouldn't tell your dad anything about your sex life.

  • Perhaps it is time to focus on earning enough money to move out. That’s difficult these days (rent is too high), so you might need to be creative and gain enough income to live out of a pop-up camper or in a trailer park. Save all the money you can and get independent, even if you start out with a humble lifestyle. Then you can make decisions without your dad interfering. Just remember that you own the consequences of whatever decisions you make.

  • Move out and live you own life

  • You are an adult. You don't need his permission. Go ahead and get it on.

  • Punch your dad jk

  • He doesn't even need to be allowed to have a say regarding the virginity of your silly cock

  • I know the answer! Post this over and over, slightly rephrased all day, every day! Oh, you've been doing this for MONTHS already? Take the hint.

    • This!!!