My daughter saw me having sex with her teacher. Will her psychology deteriorate?

My daughter saw me having sex with her teacher. Will her psychology deteriorate?

I convinced her not to say anything to her father, but my daughter looks very upset. After all, I cheated on her father. How do I make her happy? I want my daughter to be happy like before.

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  • You don't say how old your daughter but she obviously old enough to have comprehension of what you did.

    Lets be honest. You are making her carry a guilty secret of your making and she is now got a closer relationship with her teacher than she wants. If it becomes known she will probably be taunted with "Your Mom fucked Mr X" remorselessly at school.

    I don't see how you can make her happy while you make her betray her father as you betrayed your husband. She might well feel closer to her father than to you because your the bad person here.

    The right thing to do is to relieve her of the guilty secret you have forced on her. That means telling truth.

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  • Like Mother, Like Daughter.. is that Right the saying?
    You know that was the biggest "mistake" you made and in the process you kinda "accomplished 2 things" killed 2 birds with One stone...1st Bird is Your Daughter as she suppose to "learn" what's best in life and take it from you, and Second your Husband as he will be heart broken (unless he doesn't give a fuck about it) depends on what terms you 2 are... Olis your daughter Will tell... maybe not today, not tomorrow, not next week/month/year... But she will... because for her YOU TWO are still Mom & Dad, and for her would feel like Betrayal Too... so soon as she would be "alone with her father", be sure that in any given moment she will "spill the beans"... Well i don't think you can do much... and you suppose to either leave your daughter at home, or with a neighbour...🤷‍♂️

Most Helpful Girls

  • the poor daughter n the poor husband

    poor family

    u should reflect deeply on what u r doing with ur life

  • Another 2023 Mother of the Year just coasting through '24.

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  • Whoops that is a cork you can't put back without being totally honest to all parties involved.

    Your daughter will never respect you or the things you teach her if you are willing to lie to a loved one. You can't make her happy because you have forever changed her understanding of how the world works by asking her to lie on your behalf. If you don't take ownership of your mistake with her and in front of your husband, she will believe that lying, cheating and even stealing for personal satisfaction is okay.

  • Another troll posting. Why do people think it is funny to post things like this just to get a rise out of people? Grow up

  • I guess this was not the Ethics teacher

    • Math

    • Did he get you with the What do calculus and my penis have in common? Both are hard for you.

    • Bruh 💀

  • trollllll

  • You are so gross it's hard to put into words.

  • Pos alert. You want to make her happy? Own your mistakes and the consequences her father deserves better than a whore. Start leading by example or your daughter will end up just like you.

  • Just tell your daughter you love her dearly and that you have sexual needs which her dad isn’t meeting. She’ll understand.

    • Bullshit, horrible advice

  • Your marriage is over, she's going to rat on you and tell her father (as she should).

    He will likely get custody, and she is not going to be happy like before.

  • sufficed to say: children learn to "how to love" from their parents. the good the bad and the ugly.

    • besides you're making your daughter lie for you. that's a TERRIBLE trauma you're forcing on her that she'll spend many hours with a therapist in the future to fix.

    • not trying to be judgmental here. just rational and factual.

  • Let’s just say the road ahead of you is gonna get very rough because you don’t respect yourself, especially your loved ones.

  • Ya done fucked up A-A-Ron. That's a YUGE mess. I got nothing.

  • Troll

  • Things that didn't happen for $200, Alex.

  • You cheated, that train has left the station. She will never forget or forgive you. So don't even try to make her go back to the way it was. Grow up for her sake.

  • failed wife becomes failed mother! well done.

  • Do your family a favor by going to your nearest cliff and jumping off of it.

  • If you were worried about her psychology you wouldn't have been fucking her teacher...

    Basically, you can't fix it.

  • Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Cool story bro.

  • Yes, it will. You should never cheat, especially when you have children.

    • I'm sorry

    • Tell that to your daughter.