Guys, my dildo is bigger than my bf?

I asked him what inches he was so I wouldn't buy a dildo bigger than that but I believed he measured wrong. I bought the size he supposedly he said he was because I was worried I would hurt his ego but the dildo is noticeably bigger than he is. I'm worried I will feel more loose since it could stretch me out and that would bother him. I've had it for awhile now though but he hasn't said anything.. How would you guys feel if your girl buys a bigger dildo?
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  • A big dick or dildo or w/e will NOT make you lose. The vaginal canal is a pathway of muscles. Although your vagina will stretch to accept something larger than it's used to, you will go back to regular size (more accurately, the size you were before the sexual activity) not too long after you finish with the activity.
    Further more, it is note worthy that through exercising your vaginal muscles you can actually become tighter. This means that if anything, having more sex/masturbating more could actually make you tighter.

    The only time I can think of where you would actually become much looser would be from child birth. After you give birth, you can get very loose down there. However, with some effort, you can tighten up again by strengthening your muscles in your vagina once again.

    www.everydayhealth.com/.../...vaginal-muscles.aspx

    If you have strong pelvic floor muscles, your man will feel it and he'll be in heaven. And I imagine having a tighter vagina would make your guy feel bigger, so I imagine it'd feel good for you too.

    Personally, I have accepted a long time ago that there are many different sex toys for women and a large percentage of which will make my girl cum faster and harder than I could ever manage on my own. My favorite way to cope with this unfortunate and slightly emasculating fact is that I make sure I am the one operating the toys. I use them on my girl and she loves the sensation of not knowing exactly what is going to happen next. (Like how other people can tickle you and you can't tickle yourself.)
    If you think he has a problem with the size of sex toy you bought for yourself, you might let him be in control of it. Let it be fun for both of you. But that's just a thought.

  • Pssh... anything is a dildo if you're brave enough.

    • Haha good answer

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  • wouldn't bother me unless someone actually made a point of comparing.

  • Your vagina won't be lose. If that was true, women who gave birth would carry a big gaping vagina wherever they go. I personally wouldn't care about the size of your dildo. You must be very childish to complain about the size of a dildo. If he ever asks you which one you love better, your dildo or him. Tell him the dildo, not because it's bigger but because it doesn't whine. lol

  • Don't worry as long as you don't turn to the dildo more than him it should be fine, as to the stretching out thing that does not happen from dicks vaginas are extremely elastic and can fit superdicks. The you'll get lose thing is such a myth it's hilarious the only thing that can make you loose would be a having a baby and most of the time it comes back to it's original size

  • I don't see why you'd need a dildo when you have someone to have sex with. The same for the guy, he doesn't need to masturbate if he has someone to have sex with. You don't have to worry about the dildo being larger cuz you shouldn't have it all. That's my opinion at least.

    • You're right but I failed to mention that I'm in a long distance relationship. That's the ONLY reason why I have it, otherwise I wouldn't have ever bought one lol

  • meh. That's fine. It's not flesh. Enjoy your stress relief.

  • the vagina has muscles in it, you know :D you can make it tight. also: nice this is what you get for allways exaggerating with your size @ every guy ever :P

  • Just practice squeezing the dildo while inside.

  • Lmao.

    This is how the internet is. Average is 5 inches but average of gags poll is like 7 inches. Lmfao. Some who lie even go on dissing other men. Bet their fat nasty lookin dudes doing all the hating haha

    This is so raw I love it XD

  • Is he bigger than your compacity. The last girl I dated could fit all of me so a bigger dildo would have bothered me because it can't go deeper than I did

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