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My (ex-) boyfriend broke up with me but we still sleep in the same bed. Should I try to give him a blowjob or will he reject me? Any advice?

Part of the reason he's breaking up is our lacking sex life which he blames on me. The reason is my insecurities because he often can't keep an erection which I then blame on myself.

A few days ago he made a move on me but got scared we could be heard cause we visited my parents house.

I consider myself a pretty good oral giver (he loved my blowjobs) but I'm scared to be rejected. I also thought about starting to masturbate next to him...

My thinking is that it's just sex. Even if he won't take me back, shouldn't he be turned on by a woman that wants him?

In 10 days he's flying to his family in his home country but I don't want to tell myself I didn't try everything, we've been together for 8 years...

My (ex-) boyfriend broke up with me but we still sleep in the same bed. Should I try to give him a blowjob or will he reject me? Any advice?
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  • Why are you still sharing a bed with your ex? I... can't 🤦‍♀️

    Okay, to answer your question-

    "Even if he won't take me back, shouldn't he be turned on by a woman that wants him?" Not necessarily, no. He can use you for sex and gratification, yet have no interest in you relationship wise.

    You said yourself he has trouble having staying erect... which you blame on yourself. Did you ever think it might be him that's the problem and not you? That, or he's just not that into you so he doesn't get as turned on-

    I honestly wouldn't stress over it. Cut your losses: I know you invested 8 years in the guy, but you can do better.

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  • This sounds so bad I'd say don't he is already not happy with sex and just a sex act before flying off and him never seeing you again won't change anything!

    Why turn him in any so don't see the point when you know he will reject you!

    Congrats on a bad relationship ending with no baby inside you!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Last year I refused my girlfriend sex during no nut November. We had a bet on and I was doing really well up until week 3. She cuddled up to me during the night and rubbed her bare but up against my junk until I was hard and before I knew it I was on top thrusting for about 30 seconds. Still half asleep I only realised what had happened after I came. But a bet is a bet and I had to buy her new alloys for her car. Women are sneaky you will think if something

  • To me, it sounds like you should move on from this guy. I don’t think he’s worth your effort. However, I can’t imagine him rejecting oral sex from you.

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  • if you want to... it would relax him i'm sure... i always felt giving a guy blowjobs was always the key to having a good relationship.

    • Absolutely spot on there! And a good blow job goes a long way! Obviously CIM

    • @Longshank no other way

    • We can be friends 😂

  • Sorry but this just has all the sounds of being from a TROLL

  • It's already said and done, there's not much of anything you can do if his mind is made up. Add the fact that he's leaving and this just spells emotional difficulty from all angles. Don't do it, some things aren't worth the consequences.

  • You should go sleep on the couch and masturbate.. no reason to even bother with him.. one blow job isn't gonna fix your whole relationship

    • Maybe so…. but sucking him off and getting some back isn’t a bad idea surely?

    • @Longshank well if it is gonna hurt her when he leaves and doesn't come back not such a good idea.. but if she doesn't care then go for it..

    • I just think a little bit of fun would go a long way for both parties! But I’m a man so always think with my dick ha

  • Why not ask him to provide some oral service for you?

  • Your not going to recusitate your relationship with a blow job I'm afraid. He needs to find out what the real source of his erectile disfunction is.

  • Give Him A Blowjob! Go For It!

  • If you've been together 8 years, the sexual issues must be long term. If you give him a BJ will that long term issue change?

  • You could wait till he is asleep.

  • He broke up with you and you do not owe him a blowjob. You have done nothing wrong.

  • I’m telling you now… wait till he is asleep and go underneath the duvet and lick his cock slowly at the tip, he will absolutely get hard and sort you out!

    • I agree. Best advice. I suggest you listen to this man. He knows what he’s talking about. Us guys love stuff like that lol

  • why are you sleeping in the same bed?

  • Don't ask for it but you can get it out and you can get it hard for him and get it off deeply and swollow his cum and keep it in your mouth after he cums and he will love it

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