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My ex boyfriend cheated on me with a prostitutes and it makes me scared of a std that he could pass it to me, what should I do?

We have long distance relationship because we met through dating sites? and I just found out that he met with a prostitute without a condom after I met him. 6 months that we been dating through the phone and he cheated on me 4 months without I know everything and once we meet in person I didn’t think about all of those prostitute he ducked with before me fire sure but after I met him in the person for like 2 months I just found out on his email that he had sex with 3 prostitutes, 2 of them with no condom and he spend like $240-$700 for one time so I asked him to see the prostitute picture and 3 of them that he has sex with are look really dirty like nasty , I could never describe how those girls look but they do look like $50 prostitute, look like they could have sex with any guys without a condom. I stop getting mad at him about it and calm myself down and tell him “ If you gonna cheat on me why don’t you find someone who look better than that, they looks so cheap and dirty” and the things is I told him before we met to take std test and he didn’t cuz he lied to me that the last time he had sex is 2020, November and he took it after but actually it’s not, he see another girls two months before he met me, I’m so scared that I’m gonna get disease from this guy. He kind of looks like a pimp anyway, I think he would do good job as a pimp.
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  • Okay so like totally you found out after you had unprotected sex with him all this information or did you find out before you had sex with him usually all the negative stuff comes out after your have sex speaking of negative stuff that's why prostitutes at least at the street level have a negative look negative vibe all the nasty stuff comes out after sex that goes for anybody. Look I'm not going to tell you not to panic calmly walk yourself over to your gynecologist explain why you don't want an appointment you want to see somebody right now for a blood draw you have to give a sample okay probably drink some water and pee in the cup of the doctor's office they could give you results for some diseases on the spot but the blood test is more accurate I'm not saying not to have sex without a condom ever again I mean look at my profile so I'm not going to be a hypocrite but the both of you should have paperwork before you even get into a physical relationship that goes for kissing because there are a few STDs you can get from kissing. You know real estate agent used to always tell me location location location and it sucks because love should never matter what your location is but this situation clearly demonstrates that it's basically availability you're all the way over here and he's all the way the hell over there! I'm so sorry to hear that you have a right to be scared but you got to be calm and cool keep us in the loop okay if you need to talk to somebody it doesn't have to be me let me know.

    • It’s happened before I see him, we had unprotected sex since the first time we have sex. I feel so grossed out by all of those hoes

    • Did he release inside you I assume you're on the pill have you gone for blood testing yet? Yeah that does sound pretty gross.

  • Well first of all I don't think he's just going to stop doing that either and the odds are one of these days she will give you an STD I would tell him that he cannot have sex with you until he proves to you that he's clean by a doctor and then even when that happens I'm sure he's going to go out and get laid Again by another prostitute you have a lot of things you have to think about here because you're either going to allow it in your life or you're not and the sooner you put a stop to it the better you will be that's the last thing you want is chlamydia or any STD

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think that if you have had unprotected sex with him that you should get tested for stds and HIV just in case. I know it’s scary but it is better to know.

  • If you slept with him please go get tested. Then move on. You deserve better, don't settle for less.

    • Not really she did an OnlyFans when she was dating me AND I had to PAY her to be my girlfriend so whatever I can wipe my hands clean of this

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  • Both of you should get tested.
    then you can put your worries behind you, and then decide if you still want to be with this guy

  • Dump his ass and do not have sex with him he does not deserve you

  • You should go get tested and take medicine if you have something OF COURSE!!!

  • First obvious question is - are you symptomatic? Some STD's can manifest symptoms in 3-4 days, others take weeks. Call your doctor, tell her/him when you had sex that you suspect might be contagious, and get their recommendation for test times.

  • I would think a lot of them keep themselves safe from STDs

  • imao if he cheated dump him and he can't actually love u :/

  • Just have him get tested or whatever

  • Leave him, get him tested and committed, give him one last chance if you wish to

    • Thanks for like!

  • Best way is you both go for STD test, if found Positive, get treatment, May be you both are not effected

  • Have him tested or break up with him

  • Shoot him! JK

    • LOL bro she’s a good shot I seen her. Will pull a 🔪 too 😱

  • Stay far away because cheaters always bad news. Prostitute are not for guys with girlfriends they are only for virgin guys who can't get sex

  • lol you are surprised. LDR’s never work

  • Wtf why would a man cheat on girlfriend with prostitute?

    • I don’t know, he said he was trying to get a revenge on me cuz I talk to another guys and he’s confident on himself that I cheat on him when I stayed home and studying

    • Leave him. You deserve better men who will lool only at you.

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