My EX boyfriend and his bondage fetish weird or?

So me and my boyfriend first started hanging around on a summer college trip, anyway whilst there me him and few mutual friends hung together. We was in Italy and we had issues with a group of Spanish girls and one day I stole a piece of there shit anyway one of there girls came to my room when I was alone and tied me up in my bikini, to one of them like swing chairs with rope and put a piece of white sticky tape on my mouth and I was left there and hour or so until my 2 friends returned one was my future boyfriend and another a girl called mel.

Anyway we got together soon after this and he always brought it up in sexual interactions and would ask me weird questions about it, like it's the greatest turn on for him. Got to the point I'd be out with family and hed make remarks to it to me.. now I'm out the relationship I can't tell if its weird or not.
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Superb Opinion

  • It's a damsel in distress fantasy, take advantage of her for your own pleasure. A lot of guys are into tying up girls, and a lot of girls are into being tied up and used. Basic bdsm.

Most Helpful Guy

  • And how did you allow her to tie you up? 🤔 You just let it happen lol

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think after seeing you like that it excited him to the point it was all he could think about.

    • Not find it a little weird? Like I got tied up yeah but to be so obsessed with it.

    • Personally I find the whole BDSM stuff weird; but I imagine if you're into that stuff you might get a little obsessive about it from time to time. Especially if you find your crush in it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's very normal.. lots of people do. Including me

  • No, he was just really into BDSM. But It would be interesting to know where and how he got to like it so much.

  • Not weird. He likes that you were tied up and wants that. Much respect for going through that.

  • Did you like that or not?

    • Why did you do that darling?