My ex broke my hymen fingering would you still believe me that im a virgin?

[kareenakapur]

first of all im 24 and a virgin. i wanted to keep my hymen and virginity for my husband lol just think its romantic for him to have a part of me like that :( i still feel like a virgin but like I'm pretty sure my ex broke my hymen. He would always go really really rough fingering and then i would bleed after. Was enjoying but like still hurt a little and there was a good amount of blood after two times. I know it can break in many ways and some girls aren't born with one. But like to you, would you think a girl is lying about being a virgin if she didn't have a hymen.

[YesterdaysChild]

I know you are trolling because at your age it should have worn away by now, just from movement in everyday life. If it were fully intact you would not be able to menstruate. Your questions confirm your trolling.

I keep fingering my virgin pussy will I stretch it out?

kareenakapur Follow
YodaAge: 26


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im scared i finger myself soo much. what if i broke my hymen. I've only rlly done two fingers. usually just 1. but my man the other day was like no dont do 2 fingers I want to stretch you out. and i was like i already do two fingers sometimes oops. Am i stretching it out and its not going to feel good how do i keep a tight pussy.

[kareenakapur]

yes i got together with an ex after that question. And he fingered me so hard and I bled after. I never bled when I did it myself.

[kareenakapur]

I'm not trolling :( I was with a guy recently who didn't believe that I was a virgin because I had an ex for 6 years. We were both saving ourselves for marriage. Marriage didn't end up happening. Now I'm single and now I'm old. So like he was like how did you not have sex and be together for 6 years. Did he not want it? Are you too scared? And like I could feel him not believing me because I am comfy in my body. I'm not a timid scared virgin

[kareenakapur]

i want it bad. just want to save it for the man whos going to marry me. I hope that happens soon. Like I've saved it this long. I better just save it bc I think "the one" is coming soon

[kareenakapur]

you can menstrate with a hymen thats not true

[YesterdaysChild]

Not a completely intact one, which is probably rare. But hymens can have natural holes in them to allow it as not all are intact after a girl gets to a certain age. If they are I have heard of girls breaking their own hymen to allow their period. If not, can you imagine the pain and bloating of all that backed up menstrual fluids? When she finally does puncture it, it would probably spray the room like a fire hose. 😯😝😡💥💥💥

[TheorionMage]

Being 'virginal' is NOT merely a anatomical element.

IF you've EVER 'climaxed' even by self-masturbation externally, YOU are NOT a 'Virgin'.
YOU have 'known' and experienced 'sexual' PLEASURE.
Your 'ignorance' (ie: 'innocence') was 'taken'. NOW, you owe it to yourself, to make EVERY occasion SINCE to BE as passionate FOR YOURSELF (and your companion) as your 'knowledgeable' Self can BE!
ANY subsequent sexual encounter is EVERY BIT as much YOUR responsibility as their's to make the MOST of its potential (even 'rape' regrettably) 'Victim'-ization is a perceived frame of reference!
(I was abused as a child by an in-home maternal grandmother!
Divorce the sensation from its Perpetrator)

'Sex' ia as much a non-verbal language as a physical event.

[genericname85]

you had sexual activity with a guy. you aren't a virgin. you know that it isn't even very usual for a hymen to break during sex? so what if a woman ends up fucking 100 men without her hymen ever being injured? would she still be a virgin according to you?

[BoopBoopBeep]

"It isn't very usual for a hymen to break during sex" Uhm... Maybe if she's only hanging out with men with microdick. You can break a hymen horseback riding or riding a bike or inserting a tampon

[genericname85]

@BoopBoopBeep learn the difference between annekdotal individual cases and the general facts.

[BoopBoopBeep]

General fact is most women don't have sex and still have a hymen. Sorry you have a small penis.

Here's what actual doctors say:
my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22718-hymen

[genericname85]

@BoopBoopBeep that has nothing at all to do with the fact that a high percentage of women still have an intact hymen after sex. the fact that "some" individual women have an incredible closed and fragile hymen says nothing about anything. the fact that you're trying to make this about "my" dick size nothing but a testament to your non existent intellect.

[genericname85]

like even the very source you quoted says "Your hymen doesn't necessarily break the first time you have sexual intercourse" so you showed your own statement to be false. you're making this too easy dude.

[HelpfulWoman]

Hymen doesn't equal virgin unless you from the medieval period.
By standard definition, virginity is penis in vagina sex.
But for some, it can be any type of sexual activity.

[katiesmuff]

Yes as it is likely 90% of girls have broken hymans long before their first sexual encounter of any kind.

[ushagomez]

Of course you still have your virginity as the most widely accepted definition of when your virginity ends is the first time you enjoy accepting a penis into your vagina.

[Smashingdoozy]

Virginity isn't a physical thing. If a hymen determined virginity then I lost mine twice when riding a bike and the other time riding a horse when I was like 7/8

[kareenakapur]

i know but like do you think a guy would be like skeptical about me lying is what i mean. I know that it can be lost many ways

[Smashingdoozy]

No. Your word is all anyone should need. There is no other way to know.

[kareenakapur]

you're right. i was just in a relationship superrr long 6 years basically we just did oral on each other both were virgins saving ourselves but then stuff happened and we couldn't get married. and so then i dated another guy and he was a big fuck boy and didn't believe that i could've dated someone for 6 years and not had vaginal sex so it got me stressing whether i sound authentic or just a girl pretending.

[kareenakapur]

but highkey he was a red flag. I would finger myself and he was like no dont even do 2 fingers i want to stretch you out baby like wtf lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'd never care if you were a virgin or not and I'd only know if you were because you told me. I wouldn't think you're lying. I wouldn't think about it period.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't care. Virginity isn't really a thing anymore. It was before antibiotics and condoms and birth control when women married in their teens.

[Dargil]

Virginity is not about a ruptured hymen, which can happen through a variety of reasons including natural erosion. Virginity is about intent and experience with PIV or PIA intercourse. My concern with knowing a girl I am about to have sex with is a virgin or not is about knowing what I feed to, to manage it on our first session together.

A finger, huge dildo, sharpie, hair brush or cucumber to not take virginity.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

I never take peoples' words for a fact

[sheikalana]

You're still a virgin.

[bowenw]

I would believe you and it wouldn't matter to me if you weren't a virgin.

[FunkyMonkee]

I would.

[Nik1hil]

You still Virgin!.

Virginity refers to Innocence, purity, shyness of a Girl!..

[Danny_dan92]

Congratulations

[kareenakapur]

what?

[Danny_dan92]

On your accomplishment

[stratford]

Unless you've had a penis inside your vagina, you are still a virgin. But it shouldn't matter to the person who loves you.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure I'd believe you. Some guys said they could not feel the hymen when they had sex with a virgin anyway

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Hymen doesn't equal virginity.

[YesterdaysChild]

A fully intact one would, unless you consider certain other acts that might exclude it. However, by the age of 20 your hymen would have been worn away. Besides, how could you menstruate or use a tampon if you were?

[roy_ricky09]

Stupid

[Twalli]

No. I trust people until they give me a reason not to.

[Kelly6]

i guess you are not virgin

[Jerre]

If I knew the girl, yes I would believe her.

[peterrezeeek]

ur 100%
not a virgin