My female friend asked me to let her watch me masturbate?

[TheCloud2]

Today I was at the university and when I was finished and I got out of the university to go home my female friend ( which we are very close friends but just friends ) came to me and asked me if I could masturbate in front of het, she just wants to watch me, we are very close friends but we didn't have any sexual thing between us and Im very confused I dont know what to do because I dont know if I fell comfortable about it or Im afraid it will ruin our relationship so what shoud I do?

[Gman1]

Sounds to me like she wants to step on up out of the "friend zone".
Look at it this way... You both are already "close friends"... Maybe she feels that you are more than just a friend to her and wants more from you?

*You have to consider it like this... If she does feel that way, chances are if you reject her, in time she will find a boyfriend... And you will find that your friendship will drift away anyway.

I'm not sure of the dynamics of your current relationship with her, but I'm not completely naive towards the female psyche... I don't see that she would ask you to masturbate in front of her unless she has a sexual/romantic interest in you!
She is stepping up her game... Will you?

If it were me, and if I felt she could be girlfriend material, I would change my game directive.
What I'm basically suggesting is that you leave your options open to move into a new direction with her, at this point things are about to change because they can't stay the same either way...
Maybe you can say something like this with a smile on your face (flirting):
"I've thought about it, and I'll do it if you let me watch you too!"... Or maybe you can suggest she strokes it for you, or perhaps you can do it for each other... In this way, I foresee it can/will lead to kissing... Who knows what else!
Take note to read her eyes, her body language, and the tone in her voice when she speaks to you... In this, all the questions you have will be answered.
Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Maybe ask her why. I mean do you feel it would be hot? Then go for it. But maybe say only if you both do stuff together. As in is she going to be trying to arouse you?

Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with. Though it could be an interesting experience IF you like her even a little.

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[LittleFoxChild]

Just ask her why and then talk to her about it. That way you'll run a lower risk of confusion, or bad outcomes later on. And then use the information and reasoning behind the talk to decide whether you are comfortable with it.
Good luck!

[AthleticMom]

Well, in your place I would agree but only if she would help/participate so that "you wouldn't feel like a freak show" and she would get the hands on experience she really wants down deep.

[AthleticMom]

Think about it.. . let my opinion "sink in" today

[AthleticMom]

it may take ALL day.. perhaps all night

[BelleGirl21]

That seems to cross the friendship line pretty seriously. I wouldn't do it and I find it bizarre that she would ask.

[TheCloud2]

Well, she asked me what u want me to do?

[BelleGirl21]

You do whatever you want. I would say no.

[quarterlifecrisis]

If you're not comfortable then you don't have to do anything.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

B. I wouldn't. But I would advise that you talk about why she wants to. Dont judge her, dont make her spell out every detail, but it is an unusual request. And maybe once you know the reasoning you will decide that you want to.

[JuicyBrain]

If you do it, your relationship won't be the same. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. If you feel like it's no problem to you (which doesn't seem to be the case) then do it.

[Dargil]

Do it under the condition she does it at the same time and both provide the other inspiration. Speeds up the happy ending and solves the comfort problem. If she declines,... no.

[creepycreeper]

Eh, sounds like fun to me..

[malachimccoy824]

When we were 17 years old, I jacked off if front of my friend, Heather. She said it looked so "nice". I then asked her if she wanted to suck it.
And then she did. I had an ejaculation right inside her mouth

[FedoraTheExplora]

Do it.

Be like "It'd be so much better if you did it for me ;)"

[OrdinaryGentleman]

I have a feeling she wants to do more... .

[Belette22]

Show her the D, just do it.

[takumii]

Do you want to be in a relationship with her? Coz this is a good chance,

just say " only if you are willing to return the favor "

[OrangeBoy]

Dont overthink. Your friend is curious to understand better guys.
Friendship have weirder moments, butt its these kind of moments, of shares, that gives meaning for the trust between you both.

my 5 cents

[Dragan]

Don't do it.

[GodzillaGuy]

Do it, just do it, don't let your dreams be dreams!

[NightOwl88]

Talk with her first and ask why do you want me to do it, this might affect our friendship.
Worst case scenario you'll both have a time of awkwardness of avoiding each other because of it or the quick asked pertaining to it.
Best case you're still friends but more intimately involved

[jakeofalltrades]

I would personally do it, you never know where it might lead. but if you don't feel comfortable with it don't

[RasAlGhul]

if she wans that tell her (if u want do it) if she will do it too...

[Anonymous]

That's so sexy! I would masturbate in front of her.

[Anonymous]

How old is she? That is very rare case, girls usually dont like to watch if you are not her boyfriend, so you may be her crush.. WARNING, this thing may lead to SEX :P