My fiance doesn't notice when I try to hint at sex. What am I doing wrong?

I flirt. I do things I KNOW turn him on. I even bought new lingerie. He just thought I wanted to treat myself... trust me guys. Girls don't by sheer, lace bodysuits for themselves. What am I doing wrong.
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  • Well tell that to women, many claim that it is precisely why they get it (we all know its not, but they say it). As for him, I would question whether or not he is oblivious or uninterested. So maybe get more aggressive and see what happens. Also consider, is he working a lot or stressed out because it could be that he is uninterested in sex because of those things (despite popular belief ew are not fucking machines, some times we don't want it or are not in the mood) and he is trying to be polite about it (and its not something you should take personally if that is the case (which it might not be) because again, women think we should be instantly aroused and ready for sex all the damn time and that is not how we operate (and as we get older we are even less likely to operate like that).

    So consider his mental state at the moment, try to be a even more forward with him, and if that doesn't work talk about it and see whats up.

Most Helpful Guy

  • LOL! I'm sure you did it all correctly.

    I wonder if this UOB Card advertisement ever played in your place:

    It was a female privileged card and the slogan:

    THE MEN DON'T GET IT!

    Ya, I'm a man and indeed, I didn't get it the first week hearing that slogan!

    Hence, take it easy LOL! You're good. Just need more direct conversation with him. Men just don't get it LOL! (Otherwise they would grow up like their mothers did - My Fair Lady hahahaha...)

Most Helpful Girl

  • Grab him by the collar look into his eyes and tell him straight up you know what ╰(‘ω’ )╯

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Are you saying that you two have not yet had sex and he is not taking the initiative despite all of the hints you are giving him?

  • Have you tried grabbing his dick?

  • Seems pretty clear.. is he just not into sex?

  • There could be some deeper issues, I suggest you talk to him directly.

  • I dont think you did anything wrong. I just can't believe how many girls say that their husbands/boyfriends dont notice it when they hint sex. And me being a guy, i wonder what the hell is going througb their heads. I sure know what i would do if a woman hinted sex to me or try so hard to get my attention. She would have my full attention and i would be trying to knock the bottom out of her. I would be damned if my woman says i was denying her sex.

  • He may be masturbating a lot or cheating on you. It's probably time to ask him if he sees you as a roommate, because he's treating you like one.

  • sweetie... us men are not the brightest lightbulb in the room, when it comes to subtlety.
    Just tell him you wanna fuck. :-)

    A men will rarely say "no" to sex. ;)

  • If he oblivious leave bigger hints until he does... Aka keep spreading your legs wider. 😂 He gotta be real blind not to see that.

  • Get married first your already close wait it out

  • You just need to bunt

  • Nothing, he's just not reading the gesture rite!

  • Maybe this is the type of a ma who doesn't understand hints.