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After my fiance and I stopped by to visit my parents and other relatives for Christmas, we returned home and somewhat drunk. I had avoided drinking for the longest but for some reason, felt so comfortable and let my guard down.
The bad news is this time neither of us could stop ourselves, got undressed, condom was used and it happened. Strangely I didn't feel pain, well maybe it was the booze taking effect. The next day I felt overwhelming guilt over it. We just needed less than 3 months to wait (March 20th) and now I'm officially no longer a virgin. So close to the date and I couldn't resist.
He's been trying to comfort me though and is telling me it's natural what happened, not to overthink, the date is still on. How to stop feeling some guilt over it?
What Girls & Guys Said
3 26Relax there is more where that came from. Welcome to Vitamin D!
True. Thanks
Wait, you are engaged, before you had sex. How did you even know you were boyfriend/girlfriend, let alone engaged
I already have my engagement ring. We've been engaged for nearly 3 months and I moved in with him right away ever since. I didn't live with him when we were boyfriend and girlfriend. I had the best intention of making it to our wedding being a virgin but things didn't go as planned. I'm getting over it by now.
It's a story old as time, you're human, you made a mistake, don't define yourself, your relationship, or your future by it. Lord willing y'all will still tie the knot and you'll die happy knowing that your husband was still your first and your last like you intended.
He is your Fiance, You are engaged to marry him, both your family members know. Well I see nothing wrong with getting naughty with him!
It's not the end of the world. Do it again, have a few drinks, relax let your inhibition go. Enjoy each other. It doesn't make you a better person because you were a virgin the day before. You're still the same woman
Thank you. Yes what's done and done and we're doing it again very soon. I'm getting over my disappointment. I had made a childhood promise to make it a virgin on my wedding but oh well. Things don't always go exactly as planned.
He's your fiance. You lost your virginity to your future husband. I don't see an issue with it. Enjoy each other. You have to make up for wasted time