My fiance masturbate while thinking of other women, am I wrong to be jealous?

I’m currently away for three months. Well apparently during this time my fiancé admitted to pleasuring himself while looking at porn or thinking of other women. Am I wrong to think that that is a form of cheating and that if he’s turned on he should call me and have video sex or just ask for nudes

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Superb Opinion
  • Yes and no. I can understand how you feel for sure but trust me the chances of you meeting a man who is never going to think of another girl sexually very unlikely. Even if a man says he doesn’t do that shit is he really telling you the truth of just saying that so you’ll go for him? Maybe what he should do is keep his damn mouth shut. But you two need to work that out between the both of you. It’s better that he does that than acting on it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I masturbate to porn when my girlfriend isn't around. Accept that he is doing this, but ask if you can send nudes or do video sex with him some of the times he's turned on, because it feels better for you that he's getting off to you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • That is cheating and a form of emotional abuse.

    • I appreciate your thoughts

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • they always do whether they tell you or not

  • I have news for you, every single guy you have ever dated has done that. Any guy you will ever be with in the future will do it. There is nothing wrong with it, it is NOT cheating in any way. For the guy, it is meaningless.

  • Is he giving you all that you want?

  • It's understandable you're upset about it

  • You should be a little jealous

  • That’s for you and him to work out not us

    • Thanks for your opinion

    • Sure….

  • That's a red flag. Why isn't he getting off with you?

  • If you are away for three months, you should cut him some slack and let him have some freedom.

  • Maybe you're not that hot. Besides, you have been getting railed while you are away and he probably knows that.

    • I’m a swimsuit model 😅

    • Know he knows you are getting nailed like crazy.

  • no you are not wrong if he loves you then he should let you masturbate for him and good luck

  • At least he is thinking about women.

    • Hahahaha

    • Haven't you noticed on this site that every other question is about guys wanting to get pegged or have a "trans" woman? lol Just be happy you have one of the last real men on your hands. Sure, he thinks about other women, and you think about other men. It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just as long as you come home for dinner. You'll come home in a few months, and then you're not getting much sleep. lol He will wait for you. And if you really want to rock his world, tell him you're also masturbating to other guys in porn. He'll want to hear more. I don't care how far you guys are apart, you can still chat together and keep the fire burning.