Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Okay, okay. I've been planning this for more than a week, and it finally happened. I've had a lot of people asking about my thoughts and feelings on it, so here it is.
After getting ready and some intermediary stuff, they arrived to pick me up (about 4:30ish). Now, I had been thinking that this was some homebrew experiment that we were trying out, but that idea fell apart fast when they showed up IN A LIMO.
On the ride there, it was kind of awkward, especially since I hadn't been expecting something quite so... extravagant? Anyway, I found out he's a business financer of some sort, working independently. And pretty well off. Which doesn't make me feel better about this whole thing.
We chatted politely for the ride, until we arrived at the hotel, by which point I was seriously regretting my decision. I felt (frankly) more like some escort than a date, and I was worried. Fortunately, the Chinese food arrived quickly.
We broke the ice while I tried to teach Isabelle how to use chop sticks. Apparently she'd never used them before, while I'm quite experienced at it. Spencer just stuck to eating with his bare hands, which kind of (happily) ruined his new "rich boy" stature in my mind.
We eventually got it going by using a Truth or Dare app - None of us declined anything. We alternated (at Spencer's insistence) between Truth rounds and Dare rounds, so we got some interesting conversations in and further got to know each other.
Now mind you, it was technically couples truth or dare, but with one extra player, so we agreed that I would just play as if he were also my boyfriend.
Anyway, they got dared to remake their first kiss, then I got dared to let her draw something on my butt (turns out she just drew a heart with arrow).
I don't remember all of them, but at some point my Dare was to go rock paper scissors with her and winner would kiss Spencer. I won, and we kissed for the first time. Now normally I wouldn't really think this was worth mentioning, but I got my first taste of what he could do. I have NEVER met a better kisser!
We skipped over some exclusive dares (they got dared to shower together, but there's no way we were fitting three people) and Isabelle finally proposed that we move to the bed and begin.
I was more comfortable now, and I agreed. I'm not sure how much detail I want to put here, but it started with kissing - a lot of it. Neither me nor Isabelle could get enough of him. We took turns, mostly, before we moved on.
All I want to say past that point is that I was incredibly surprised by how much energy was present. I've never seen anything like it, especially since when someone got tired or needed to recover, the other two could just go on without them.
The next morning wasn't awkward at all! We laughed and joked, and we got breakfast ordered from the hotel and brought up to the room (which I didn't know you could even do). It only got awkward again when they finally dropped me off. I got shy again, and we said goodbye. I think they are waiting for me to make the next move, or not (if this really was only a one time thing).
If I missed anything, don't be afraid to ask if you want. This isn't one of my usual posts, so I'm not sure if I did this right :/
What Girls & Guys Said
16 53sounds like you had a wonderful experience. thanks for sharing :)
Well it seems that you enjoyed, which is important and you had a great first experience. Most people don't enjoy it at the first time. If you felt good , you should try it again.
Sounds like a good time
You know Lily I this on my mind but I hesitated to ask ya 🙂. Lol I mean the guy was damn awesome 🤣 to have 2 gorgeous ladies in his room the whole Night 🤣🔥🔥😅 I hope he lasted a bit longer to satisfy both of you, my questions are where you'll satisfied? Did he gone down on you too?
3) How was it done like? (Swapping, or you'll on him at the same time?) 4) Did you guys follow procedures to insure that your all healthy was good? Everything about STDs and STIs? Or did you use protection?
I'll PM you.
Okay ✌🏾
Loved your story and details! Wished and wanted more too! Thanks
If you need more, PM me
You are a delightful young woman, Lily
Perhaps soon you will come around to my way of viewing things
It sounds like you are already closer than you admit
Lerena? Did you get a G@G account? Couldn't you just talk to me over text like a NORMAL friend?
Darling, where's the fun in that? I'm simply Queen here
Maybe... In YOUR DREAMS ... Get it?
Yes, dear. Very delightful
Wow, sounds like a fantastic time - I might have to take this as a reason to plan a 3some!
Thank you so much
Isn't life grand? Enjoy the ride.
How old are you? Don’t you feel like a bit… I dunno used? I get the sexual fantasy and everything but at the same time I don’t know if I can understand giving my body to two strangers relatively and being ok with that.
For a solid moment, that's how I thought the experience would be, and I was scared. Looking back, I don't feel like that at all. It didn't feel like giving myself over nor like I was just fulfilling a fantasy. There were genuine emotions involved, not just passive (or active) lust.
Save those emotions for the man r woman who you are going to be with for the rest of your life, every time you sleep with someone you are losing a bit of yourself too them. Don’t treat your body so disrespectfully. You’re too young did all this shit and you should never feel scared before anything. Please don’t do this again.
Can you explain how sleeping with someone can make someone lose himself/herself a bit?
@TwiNshichamp1 I am a spiritual person so not all may agree but if I allow someone to enter my body through sex I see that as us essentially becoming one at that moment in time. It’s why people become attached even though they have no intention of that happening if they engage in casual encounters. I think this young lady is making a very foolish mistake doing these things and perhaps she doesn’t have good guidance from those around her but engaging in anything like this just isn’t good for you.
She knows what she is doing. You better leave her.
@confusedashell123 when you say spiritual, are you a Christian?
@TwiNshichamp1 yes absolutely
She’s said she’s been scared before going into it. That tells me all I need to know. I’ve never been scared before sleeping with someone. It should be the opposite
You have some actually solid points. I can feel that kind of experience you are talking about... Ever since I lost my virginity to a friend in an... unfortunate incident, I guess I've let some of that go. Part of me wants to try to retain as much of that connection as I can, but another part feels that it's already been taken from me.
@lilyofthelake "unfortunate incident"? Did he forced you?
I can sense from your post your unhappiness. If you want to talk to someone about anything feel free. Sometimes things happen to us that can change us and not always for the better but I am a big believer in those things can be turned around for good and a positive outcome. We can always learn and help others. Stop doing these things where you are lowering yourself. Look to find yourself and your happiness in something that fulfils you. Animals, nature etc. these are all good things for the mind and spirit. Don’t look to strangers and sex to heal something inside you that only YOU can heal. I’ve made plenty of mistakes. This is true happiness
@TwiNshichamp1 don’t ask her such personal questions she may not want to answer. Have some sensitivity!! And this is exactly why I said what I did.
@TwiNshichamp1 Yes, more or less. We were both drunk, so it was more complicated than that, and I'm sure he didn't really mean to, but he kind of did.
@confusedashell123 As for what you've said... I'll keep that in mind as I try to explore my feelings and the world around me.
@lilyofthelake sorry to hear that Lily. But I hope you're just fine now.
Stay away from things that will only bring you more unhappiness x
@confusedashell123 You're so right. Only spiritual people will understand the transfer. Also the women's body doesn't simply rid the semen. It becomes part of your DNA. You take on, not just him, but all of his ancestors before him. It's truly not fair to your partner who you plan to settle with. Then again I guess each to their own. Some people just don't care about this sort of thing and the damage it does down the line. spirituality just helps you see down the road. It doesn't guarantee the road will be smooth or bumpy. Kind regards, DoctorSex
A man's semen has the ability to change your neurology, it has the ability to affect how your heart beats, it has the ability to affect your pulse. It has the ability to change your sleeping, eating, metabolism. It's truly shocking the things we play with in society. Women are taught to play with fire. Kind regards, DoctorSex
@DoctorSex couldn’t agree more. Definitely an interesting topic as well
@DoctorSex Hey whaat? Looks interesting, can you teach us a little?
@TwiNshichamp1 I'm hoping to do a Mytake about this soon. The nature and power of the male Sperm in transforming the female anatomy at the DNA level is widely unknown, and that's a travesty of the highest levels. Young girls are just wondering through life completely unaware what's actually happening in this spiritual transfer. I'll be doing a MyTake about this within the next week. Kind regards,
@DoctorSex can’t wait to read it
This sounds very interesting. I would love to hear more.
Always welcome to ask!
Congratulations!
Sounds like a great experience, congratulations.
Sounds physcially and emotionally intimate tbh i assumed it could be choatic but with right peeps it can be cool and intimate if people are freinds and freindly broadened my perspective tbh.
Congrats!! ;)
Pitiful
Happy other 4 5 6 7somes to youuu!
Congrats
Love your story. Do we ask here?
Or in DM's, depending on how personal the question
The picture looks exhausting for everyone…
i like the truth or dare game intro. Breaks the ice.
How much girl on girl did you do?
Was it enjoyable?
Honestly? Not too much! Spencer kept us both EXTREMELY busy - his abounding energy and enthusiasm is part of why she likes threesome in the first place; she needed someone to take some of the pressure off of her