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My first time having sex?

I'm 18 and I've been in a relationship with a guy for 4 months, we're in a long distance relationship and we're going to meet the first time soon, I never had sex before cause I was kind of scared and thought I was too young, I'm pretty close to my mom so when we were talking about this topic I told her that I may have sex with my current boyfriend, and she started going crazy over it and saying that I can't just sleep around with any guy that I started dating cause I don't know him well and he may just leave me after having sex with me, I don't think it makes sense cause sex is not a big deal in my opinion, do you think she has the rights to act like this?
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  • There is a saying that "we never forget our First Time sex."

    Hence for good or for bad, please bear this in mind because I think that saying holds some truth.

    At 18 you can be almost certain that you will not marry him. This means eventually, you will only remember the guy who took your virginity away, but not with him.

    Can you accept this possibility?

    First Time Sex with someone you love is very beautiful. Just make sure it's worth it and you do not regret.

  • Its your personal decision. Its your body. Its how you really feel about sex. If it isn't sacred then dont be afraid of it. I will say your first will be your only one thats quite like that. But if you feel and know in yourself how you feel about it then go have fun at your fullest. Make sure you and him really click too. Connection is so much and everything with sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Take your time and be comfortable to have sex coz it's don't matter if you are comfortable with the guy you can have but yes in 4 months I too feel like a guy can leave you after sex as he is going to meet you first time according to me you should at least wait now and meet him some more time before sex if you want him long in life and if you wanna have sex and if he leaves you you can move ahead than you can go ahed now at last it will be your choice and your way of thinking

  • She is worried for you, which I think is okay, but it's your life. You get to decide if you want to have sex, and when.

  • If you’re going to share your sex life with your mother she’s going to tell you her thoughts on it.

  • It’s natural for a mother to feel this way and I’m pretty sure she’s speak from experience.

  • Yes she dose have a right to feel concerned.

  • your mother is right.
    he may leave you after getting in your pants.

  • Your mom wrong amd I thing later you dont tell her your own special life and datings. And you must carefull for contraception. Its important

  • You should do it if you feel ready to do it in my opinion...

  • Your mom is right, it's better to be careful than regretting it later. You Should be mature enough to handle things after sex. And you must have mutual understanding and trust on your partner to give him your virginity

  • Yes she has the right

  • She does have right to tell you her opinion. But it's yours to make it or not. It's your own body and mind.

  • You shouldn't have told her. Now she'll be monitoring you guys and you won't be able to do it.

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