My friend got a boner because of me?

Is this normal or am I just looking places I shouldn’t be on accident? We were at a beach a group of us kinda lounging and hanging out. And I’ll admit my bottoms to my swim wear are a bit more showy (about half my butt is out) when I had walked off and come back I noticed like a bulge in his pants, I may be overreacting but I don't know.
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  • I think you can be quite certain you gave him a boner and he liked/admired your butt. This happens as a matter of course on the beach and in the street. We see something we like the look of and suddenly we have an erection.

    Sometimes the first thing I know is I am hard. I could be walking down the street thinking about my finances and what can i afford to spend and suddenly I become aware I have an erection. Some how I always know which way to to look for the cause of my erection.

    I am quite certain that there is a section of the primitive primal sex circuits of the male brain that is continuously scanning for cute girls whilst my logical mind is heavily engaged on finances or other non-sexual matters.

    So it is not necessarily that he thought I'll check out her butt and got hard over it whilst your back was turned - though it could have been. It could have been a more primal indigenous sex response.

    It doesn't mean he wants to have sex with you though he might do. I got an erection at seeing a little more of a female cousin then I should have and I certainly did not have sexual intentions towards her.

    It doesn't mean he has feelings for you either though he might have.

    If you are feeling off put by this don't be. Guys are meant to get hard over female bodies. Just laugh at the male response.

    You can certainly take it as a compliment to your butt.

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  • Yeah, if you think just because he says he is your friend that he would not like to bone you, or that if you are sexy that means he does not notice... just because you are Friends then you are naive as fuck.

    Maybe the boner was because of you, and maybe it wasn't... but sure as fuck you can bet that if you noticed his bulge then he notices your ass. So, if you have a nice ass, and you want to take that bulge to mean that maybe he thinks more of you then just as freinds... well I would think you would probably be right to do so.

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  • So, what you're saying is that he is a straight man who was alive.

  • Were you the only girl on the beach?

  • It happens to guys all the time. I'm sure he noticed ur swimwear. How old is he? As you may know teen boys and younger guys are walking/talking boners who are always horny. As you also know they all masturbate frequently to kind keep the boner a bit more mellow (but most will never admit it. What are your thoughts have you noticed guys with boners before? With a boyfriend?

  • Might have had nothing to do with you.

  • '(about half my butt is out)'

    So you were manipulating the reaction... guys can get hard from a gust of wind... or even a smile. Thus it doesn't mean much. Modesty is what is so much more attractive though...

    • you can’t get upset every time a man has an erection near you. You will have no peace. Seriously, it’s completely normal for a man to glance at a friend and have an erection. It’s also common for a man to think about something unrelated to what’s going on around him and have an erection. Come to think of it, it’s common for a man to have an erection and not know why. I bet that I have 12 unfulfilled erections on a normal day.
  • If hebwasnt doing anything himself then it's normal he just got aroused from seeing

  • It's possible he got a boner because of you. If there's other females laying around in bikinis, he could be looking at their boobs and their bikini bottoms or swimwear bottoms. Basically it's the same as wearing a pair of panties except they're lined.

  • It could have been from him looking at you or another girl in your group who was in a swimsuit. But yes that's normal for that to happen for a guy your age.

  • I think that's called "Being Male".

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