My friend and I finally had sex and I haven't heard from him. What's the deal?

An old friend and I reconnected about 4 years ago and there's always been some sexual tension and flirting on both of our sides. I'm close with his kids and his family and we do hang out socially. There has been much more flirting the in the last few months (we kissed a few times and sexted a bit) but last week we finally did the deed and it was great. We had a good time in bed and he left with a kiss. But I have yet to hear from him. What gives?
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  • He probably thought he's been a moron since he already has kids that he quite clearly didn't have with you. Is he still with his wife/partner?

    That would be the only case in which a fuck buddy would be severely advised against.

    • No he's been divorced for about 4-5 years now. Regardless, he clearly is a moron.

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  • Dang I'm a guy and I don't understand guys sometimes. Sounds like you 2 have a great history and have some decent chemistry and then the dude has sex with you and stops talking? I can't even begin to guess wtf is going through his mind. If I was at that stage of life and did you guys did, I'd continue for sure.

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  • When you say family, is his wife still in the picture?

    • No, he's been divorced 4 years. But I went to high school with him, and know his mom and dad... as well as his kids.

    • Might be that he's worried because you two are too close. I'd ask as much. So flip it around. You're married, have kids, raise them together, an irreconcilable difference takes place (I have no idea what happened) and your ex-husband is now dating that good friend who just happened to be there right when the divorce was taking place. It doesn't matter whether there was cheating or not, that's civil court, it sure would look like it to me. That may be what's running through his head.

    • He definitely has issues from his divorce (I reconnected with him after), and his mom and kids always have said they think we should be together. Honestly, we have both been in other relationships the last 4 years and have always supported each other; things just seemed to change a little the last few months with him making more overtures and we both have acted on them. I kinda felt that things had been leading up for awhile, but maybe he's gotten cold feet once we actually did it. I just didn't think he would be this douchey after the fact since we have been in each other's lives.

  • He got what he wanted (sex) and has moved on. Simple as that.

    • Yeah, I figured as much, but since we are actually friends, it's not like we're not going to be seeing each other at some point. But men will be men.

    • Yes, men will be men, unfortunately.

  • jerk.

  • Sadly that's how it goes sometimes

    • Very true.

    • You could find out why , you are close to the family.

    • I could, but I don't want to exactly tell his family we did that. lol

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  • Sorry to say this, but it sounds like he was just after sex. But try contacting him.

  • That's all he wanted. Next.

  • was it great? Says you or him?

  • He forgot you after sex

  • It's probably only been an hour since he left.

    • It's been a week.

    • What's his ethnicity?