My friend masturbates to my pictures, what should I do?

[AliceVel5]

Recently a friend of that friend said to me that this guy is masturbating to my pictures on fb. I am not really sure how I feel about it, should I tell him that I know, keep it a secret or do something else? I dont really have any right to stop him after all.

[lightbulb27]

send him more pictures? Just kidding...

It means he is attracted to you for sure, but realize, he could be doing that to any picture or any image in his mind... it doesn't mean everything. It would be better if you didn't know in this case because now you can't forget it.

Do you like him? Joke with him that you've been masterbating to his pictures... oh that may cause some trouble... Or ask him if he's interested in a relationship to have the real thing?

If don't like him, I don't know... block him?

[madhatters4]

the reality is that i imagine many girls have been the inspiration for a solo session, especially with the popularity of instagram and fb with girls in their going out clothes, swimwear, etc.

i wouldn't feel all that great about it if i were a girl. like i'd feel very awkward around that person

[madhatters4]

but i guess in a sense you could be flattered

[Anonymous]

my friend told me the same a few days ago ): at first i felt rare and angry but now that i think about it, i really do not care. If he is happy doing it then i do not care.
Actually, is kind of a compliment that you can give him an orgasm without even touching him.

[SarahsSummer]

I think it's a bit creepy and even creepier that this guy tells people. All guys do it but this info tells you that he gets turned on by you. I wouldn't say anything to him but Are you attracted to him?

[AliceVel5]

Its not like I am, I just considered him only a friend, never really though of him that he might liked me. He didn't seem interested in me either, he wasn't really flirty or anything like that. Couldnt it be that he is just doing it because he find me attractive rather than a good parter?

[AliceVel5]

Also he didn't tell anyone, he was caught (he doesn't know that I know)

[SarahsSummer]

Yeah definitely. I still wouldn't say anything to him about it.

[AliceVel5]

I dont really feel angry at him, more like confused. I just feel like I will constantly think about him masturbating to my pics next time I see him in person.

[SarahsSummer]

Awkward!😬

[Cmasterson]

I mean if you did, doesn't mean he will. If it makes you feel uncomfortable make sure you tell him.

[Lefrancais]

lol even if you said something, it would make the convo super awkward, and he'd still continue. So you'd have made it awkward for no reason. And you sound like you almost "don't mind" lol is that the case? Is it cuz he's cute or something?

[AustinMan]

I think unless you want to date or at least sleep with him, you should just ignore it.

[Adrian114clover]

Send him a good pic. You should be flattered

[SparklingKirby]

it is really creepy. It really depends, what do you want the outcome to be. If you hope he'll stop, maybe telling him that you know will lead to the embarrassment outweighing the lust.

[EmpatheticLady]

So you can't be sure that he is doing it? I mean, if you're that offended, you can tell him what you heard and see where it goes. If he says he does, you can tell him you'd rather he not do it. Yes, he can still continue, but... it is what it is.

[Rahdle]

Not much you can do besides just feel weird about it. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable if you don't want him doing it

[OlderAndWiser]

Unless you are interested in developing a sexual relationship with him, nothing positive will come from talking to him about it.

[Catscratch]

i'd be flattered, i'd never mention it to him, but i do like that a guy finds me attractive enough to masturbate to my pictures. I'm guessing the pictures aren't too revealing as they are on fb?

[AliceVel5]

no, not really, the most revealing one is me in my bikini, that's about it.

[Catscratch]

That's good anyway. Although thinking like a guy i imagine he's thinking of your bikini being your bra and panties lol

[AliceVel5]

"being your bra and pantie" XD wait what? XD

[Catscratch]

I was just saying women would look at your bikini pic and think cute bikini or she looks good in that bikini were guys are most likely thinking, that's what she looks like in her bra and panties. Especially if your friend is already masturbating to you, i imagine that is one of the thought's he'd have.

[SarahsSummer]

I'd imagine they're thinking about what's under the bikini/bra/panties.

[AliceVel5]

@SarahsSummer Haha I would think so too XD

[samanthabee]

I would be flattered... Ask him to show you how he did it and enjoy the show!

[AliceVel5]

I am pretty sure he would jump out the window if he knew that I know about it XD

[CheerGirl38139]

Offer to help him. :)

[countrydude]

Mho @CheerleaderGirl38139

[biguyct]

Perfect answer!

[NJ_Casanova]

If you don't see him than forget about it... there is nothing you can do. It would be worse to go near him/confront him.

[matheus_mb]

Nothing you do will make him stop masturbating, it's something out of your control, he does it privately and if he likes it he won't stop. If you wanna tell him, do it, maybe it will help to make him stop but I'm not sure.

[chintita]

tht isn't ur friend anymore

[AliceVel5]

wouldn't go that far to break our friendship just because he's horny, I get being horny part afterall. I just feel odd about the situation

[BertMacklinFBI]

upload a funny ass disgusting picture and tag him in it

[zorro8888]

So this is all hearsay and you have no idea of he really does that?

[TadCurious]

Why do you have to do anything about it? I don't think you do.

[kittykatbrat]

Tbh, this is "situation normal" for me as I can't control what people do to my pics and am not crazy enough to even think I could try.

[Prof_Don]

I'm almost certain that u have other friends that masturbate to your pictures... they're just not as overly honest as he was.

He shouldn't have said anything. He told an #UnnecessaryTruth

[Fearless_banana]

Lol damn that is beyond creepy. How does one fap to a picture.. BRB 2016 but still jerking off like a fcking pilgrim

[countrydude]

My question is how do you know he masturbates to tour pictures? Did you catch him?

[MakeShiftThug]

If he does actually do that, and our friend isn't lying then that's disgusting.
If you were my sister or someone I knew I'd find out where the hell that nasty piece of crap lives and teach him a lesson or two on respect and how to be a decent person.

You do have a right to me mad. Maybe take away your photos? For now. All in one go.

[AliceVel5]

I am actually not mad, I mean everyone masturbates. I just feel strange about knowing that someone did it to my picture and just looks normal when talking with me. I just feel slightly awkward when talking to him.

[MakeShiftThug]

Well not everyone, and especially to people they know. That's just gross.

[RebeccaBlоwjоb]

Feel flattered.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Masturbate back, that'll show um!!

[worldscolide]

Here is the rub. He absolutely should not be publicizing that. It's creepy that he would tell you let alone someone else. That having been said, tell him how you feel about it, but don't expect him to stop using your pics in that way. It sounds crappy, but as long as he is on your friends list or your profile is public he can do what he wants with your pics. A good person would stop, but I don't know him well enough to say anything about him. So I am giving you worst case scenario.

[Lalala124]

I don't think mentioning it would really do anything. Just make it awkward. Probably wouldn't make him stop.

[RainbowFanGirl]

One of my guy friends told me he did. I was flattered.

[AssJacket]

Wait, how does the friend know?

[PhilX]

I mean, it is his private time, he can masturbate to anything he wants to. Just because he got caught doesn't mean he needs to stop it. It is also possible that he doesn't see you as a good material for a partner but more of an attractive female, like a model, you don't need love a model to fap to her.

[BryanMoore]

Letting on that you know might make things worse, he might like that you know! But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, the least you could do is tell them that?

[93stepsawayfromhome]

What kind of idiot actually tells someone about this? Seriously?

I mean, do what you want. You indeed don't have the right to stop him.

[iFarted]

Its a compliment... We dont just fap to mediocrity

[FrenchyRomain]

send him more or even better : give him the real thing xD

[TonyRyanAgain]

That's weird, I use your pictures too.

[Thrushpuppy]

No wonder... now I know why they were all stuck together when I used them... lol

[TonyRyanAgain]

@Thrushpuppy that means I'm healthy!

[creamylover]

just tell yourself that he likes you, and you are the one that makes him cum.. lol
if you tell him, that would be so awkward for you both..
keep it to yourself, he will move to other girls pictures after some time

[BDGuy]

That's a creepy guy. But i think you shouldn't talk about it with him.

[projectmanager]

I want too :))

[Anonymous]

Is it not flattering? I know that most guys do it. Why do you think a lot of guys "like" these females so much?

The more respectable guys will not like the pictures, but just fap to them in private. Liking them is just to mark it that they did it!

See this btw: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2004413-what-does-this-sexual-fantasy-about-a-flaky-woman-mean

[Anonymous]

Told him not tell you, will see him tonight.

[Anonymous]

Simple: lock your pics so your friends only can see them

[Anonymous]

Block him so he can't get to your pics! That's fucked up

[AliceVel5]

I am certain that if I were to do that he would ask me why, I would rather not answer that question. Also I dont really find that fucked up, just odd that he does it to my pictures.

[Opinion Owner]

Raally? I would feel so violated and creeped out

[AliceVel5]

Well If girls can do that and guys wouldn't feel creeped out, why would a girl feel creeped out by a friend doing it.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't masturbate to friends pictures.

[AliceVel5]

But if a girl were to do that it would be ok for a guy, so why not for a girl?

[PhilX]

I fully agree with that statement

[Opinion Owner]

Alright. But some day you'll hopefully realize that this isn't ok behavior. Would you want some Perv to do this to your sister or even daughter?

[Anonymous]

What type of pictures?

[AliceVel5]

apparently most of my fb pictures, like when I am on the beach, playing basketball and things like that

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh well beach and sporting pics can be hot. I would feel wrong though doing that to a friends pic lol