My friend stopped being my friend because I had sex in her house?

[Anonymous]

Last night I was fairly drunk. I bought back this guy as I was sleeping round hers and she bought back SKMEONE and things esculated and me and him started having sex on her bed I was drunk. She came in screaming at me and kicked me out at 3am with my phone on 3% and no way of getting back. I had to walk for hours to get home. We haven’t spoken since? Is what I did rrwlly that bad? I wasn’t thinking about it. I’ve let my friends have sex in my bed before and I didn’t kick them out?

[SnowedIn]

So, what you did, yes, was really that bad. And the difference between what you did and you letting people have sex in your bed is that you didn't ask your friend. People get grossed out by that. I'm not saying they should or shouldn't but they do.

That said, your friend was wrong too. Not about how she felt but about kicking you out. That was a dick move.

But, yeah, you were wrong.

[Asker]

I said sorry though for what I did and she hasn’t said sorry for kicking me out taking my Phone charger and throwing my bags in the road?

[SnowedIn]

That's not cool and not the right course of action for her to take. At this point I think the best thing you can do is just lay low and she's either going to work her way past it or, possibly, not. :( I'm sorry. It sucks. You did the right thing by apologizing but that's it for now.

[Summeroflove]

It’s her house. Don’t do shit like that. You ask questions you don’t want the answer to and argue with people to try to get the answer you want to hear

[Summeroflove]

How? She brought a random dude into her house and has sex in her bed. Disgusting

[Kaneki05]

Some people are more private I suppose. I wouldn't care much about you doing that on my bed lol.
Though actually I would but more for the reason I wouldn't be to get over you scent and get a crush on you so... that wouldn't be good.

Next time just ask what the other person is okay with.

[MrCommodore]

Yeah its a bit twisted in fairness, I'd have kicked a friend out too if they did that in my bed.

[Reece12345]

I think this was an overreaction if this was just with your boyfriend.

I would wait until she calms down and then try to talk with her again? If possible? This doesn't sound like such a big deal to me.

[Asker]

Yeah it was my own boyfriend and she said it was disgusting the way I was making out with him on her bed and threw my stuff out and made me leave

[Reece12345]

It's really not a big deal. Like if a friend of mine had wild sex in my own bed in my own place it wouldn't upset me at all. Is she religious? A nun?

[Summeroflove]

Good.

[Summeroflove]

Where did your boyfriend go? Oh he probably don’t give a shit about you and using you for sex. Having sex in her bed. How disrespectful can you be. Why would she want to sleep or lay ins. Bed someone has sex in?

[Summeroflove]

Because what you did was wrong. In her house. I wouldn’t be your friend either.

[Asker]

I mean I Guess I just thought people do that. I’ve had friends who have got with someone in my bed and I didn’t think it was anything big.

[Summeroflove]

Well. What you did is disgusting going into HER house bringing some random dude in. If you want to be a degenerate low life. Go somewhere else

[Summeroflove]

Stop trying to justify your shitty actions and make your friend to be the problem

[Summeroflove]

You were having sex in HER bed too? Did she even know the guy?’ Damn you really are disgusting her bed sheets. You’re probably so nasty you wouldn’t even wash it. I like your friend. She don’t take no shit. Pooooorrrrrr witte bawwwwby hawwwd to waaawwwk awwwwwwwwwww HAHAHHAHA

[Asker]

I understand what I did was wrong but I was DRUNK and she kicked me out in the countryside at 3am with no where to go and took my phone charger so I couldn’t even charge my phone and threw my bags down the gutter. I think it’s a bit of a over reaction and luckily I didn’t get killed for being kicked out. I said sorry and begged thays all I could do but kicking me out and taking my things on purpose is wrong. She’s 35 I’m 19.

[Summeroflove]

GOOD FOR HER

[Summeroflove]

You did something horrible. Bring some random dude into HER house. Had sex in HER house not to mention HER bed and I doubt you would have even washed the sheets. You disgusting low life whore

[Summeroflove]

I would have kicked your ass out too. You’re 19 you’re grown and shouoe have known better. Also you’re not 21 you shouldn’t have been drinking dumb bitch

[Summeroflove]

Also. What about the dude you were having sex with? Where did he go?

[Asker]

Are you okay in the head? Do u have anything better to do that comment on my post what a freak. You’ve commented 10 times I asked for a opinion not a lecture? Are u my father? 🤣🤣arguing with a 19 year old at you’re big age of 26

[Asker]

Am I from america you absolute cunt no I’m from England I can drink at 18 you dumb prock

[Asker]

You’re so so so passionate about a situation that isn’t even yours aren't you. Calm down. I took responsibility for my actions and you’re calling me a whore. You don’t even know me get off my damn page you harassing freak

[Summeroflove]

Asker you asked the question. If you don’t want the answer don’t ask like I said

[Summeroflove]

Still what you did was wrong prick

[Summeroflove]

YoU YOUUUUUUUU asked for a opinion loser and didn’t want the answer. If you don’t want a answer. DO NOT ASK

[Guardian45]

Probably cuz you had sex with the guy SHE WANTED to have sex with!

[Yellovv]

Did you make sex with her boyfriend or what?

[Asker]

No it was mine 😭you’d think by the way she reacted it was her boyfriend

[Yellovv]

Maybe she upset for not taking dick.

[Anonymous]

LOL yeah its disrespectful and trashy.. Id have done the exact same.