My friend wants to finger me? HELP!!?

So yesterday I was at my friends house and his parents were gone and he put his hand on my thigh and started to move it closer to my area before he could reach he looked up at me as if asking for permission and I got up and left. I love him to bits... As a friend and I don't want that to change. But how can I get him to understand?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I feel the same, I love my friend (girl) to bits too and I'd love to cuddle her and fall asleep, possibly sleep with her, kiss her etc and be her boyfriend. But she doesn't feel the same way so I've had to respect that and we are still really close. I understand its difficult for you but from my experience I can see it from his side and its really bad having feelings for someone you can't be with

    • Maybe someday just not today I just don't like him like that, feelings can change I know that, so first you don't worry it's possible for that to change, and maybe me too but right now no I just can't..

  • I support you for having respect to leave, you did the right thing trust me
    you got tell him like this friends don't do that kind of stuff and your not
    allowed to engage in inappropriate behavior

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just flat out tell him "hey you are a great guy and I think you are amazing but I only like you as a friend. I don't want you to touch me like the way you did." If he is a good guy he will be respect that. If he keeps pushing he isn't a good friend and you should stop hanging out with him.

    • Thank you I'll do that :)

    • Thanks for the MH :)

    • No problem it's true ;)

  • Tell him you don't feel comfortable being sexual with him.

  • Be friends with benefits if your comfortable with it!

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  • Tell him... yes it needs courage and you can loose him.. but such stuff there is no middle grounds.. tell him straight but in a kind way.

  • I get the feels from that dude xD
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  • Yea just tell him you want to keep it strictly a friendship.