I'm just having a chill day at home and I already jerked off. I'm not her slave or something.
Then what was the point of even asking the question. Seems like you argued with most that offered a thought to your question. Seems rather counter productive. Does it not?
Just because you met her on Tinder, and have no attachments other than in your eyes as it is seeming a place to get your dick wet when its weekend, does not give you the right to be an asshole to not only her, but to the people you presented a question to in regards to seeking an answer. Otherwise there was not a single to ask.
I understand the annoyance with having been asleep already. Honestly though, it really isn't too difficult to just treat others kindly. There is enough hate and discontent out there for us to have our fill for life. Why add more to it over her wanting some of your D? Is that not something to be happy about? She chose to contact you... *shrugs*
As to the update surprised she got back in touch with you honestly. However take it as a chance to show that you aren't just an asshat. Ya don't have to go out of your way or anything but treat her better.
Bottom line, this response isn't meant to more so attempt to maybe give a new perspective, while also letting ya know if you don't want to take the time to consider others views in regards to a situation then perhaps don't present a question.
Anyway best of luck to your endeavors and travels moving forward.
She's no angel, she cheats on her husband and one time I went to her place because she messaged me and her kid was there with her. I just turned around and left. I'm not even sure I want to bother with her anymore, but she keeps texting me. I couldn't care less about her.
That does paint a different picture. However, given the information provided as of the post. With the new info, I honestly wondering the same. Granted I do not know the full story, nor is it my place to ask. The only thing I will say is if you come to a space looking for feedback from others, context is key. Granted slippery slope in gaguing the level of exposure in the situation. So to you I will say I apologize for the harshness in my response. I do hope you are able to decide on what your course is in regarding the situation.
You meet for sex, one of you doesn't want it, no point in meeting up.
Yeah it’s bad, in fact it’s unbelievably rude! I hope she has the self esteem to never see you again! What would have been wrong with, “I can’t tonight sorry sweetie” or “I’m sorry I'm just not in the mood”?
She ain't my sweetie.
It depends, if you want to keep her as a friends with benefits's, then yeah... she might find someone else and end it.
You could of just said, your busy and can't meet tonight.
I hear you, it's just that she texted me twice, then called me when I was sleeping. We usually meet on the weekends so I was just annoyed. She also lives an hour away.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Wow! That sounds like a really loving and caring “friend.” Not that love is even understood or given priority here which is why friends with benefits is a very selfish and self-centered idea. I can’t imagine how dehumanizing and degrading it must be to treat someone this way. You tell her to blow off when you’ve had your selfish fill and yet I’m sure you are right there and persistent when you need a fix from that piece of material, I mean person. Do yourself both a favor and stop engaging sexually with anyone until you can grow up, stop being selfish, learn what love and commitment is about, and be responsible!
Wouldn't be surprised if that's the last you see of her. I certainly wouldn't want to have sex wth anyone with that attitude.
RESPONSE TO UPDATE: So you are fucking a woman who has no pride and no self-esteem.
Yeah, that's how most of my fuck buddies I meet on Tinder are. She just wants to fuck, there isn't much more to her.
There are better ways to tell her that you can’t. You need to learn to control your temper. And honestly I get the desire to just leave it alone. But after that if you want to still be her friends with benefits I would suggest driving down there and giving her a nice night out. Just because that was a really crappy reply and even at an hour away she obviously is looking for a little company on thanksgiving…
So a fuck buddy is not a person? She is someone elses daugther, sister, aunt, cousin, maybe a mother...
Seems like a sex doll is much better for you.
Stop being friends with benefits with her.
I can't believe she apologised. Does she like to be controlled and treated like trash?
She cheats on her husband with me and like 5 other guys on Tinder, she is trash basically. I have no feelings for her.
I think then you are both ass. She is horrible for cheating so many times. You know about her own problems, but you became friends with benefits with her. She has done wrong to ger husband and other guys, and you. But treating her like that is still not right, because she doesn't trat you bad. Your action will only be right if she treats you bad or if you were betrayed by her too.
Wow, you really handled that poorly. The point of an friends with benefits is to also be friends.
It's just a figure of speech, she's more like a fuck buddy minus the buddy part. She's just a fuck and she already messaged me back today.
It's not a figure of speech, if you're doing it right. Stop being an asshole to the woman you're having sex with. She's opening herself up to you; acknowledge and honor that fact.
She's just opening her legs to me and about 5 other guys, don't try to romanticize it.
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Why take her side, she's such a terrible person in reality.
Give her some Huge Pink Schlong !!!
Congrats, you win the scumbag of the day award on here.
Why? She's just a fuck buddy I met on Tinder. She can go bang one of her others tonight, I'm not call for her.
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