My friends say that guys prefer girls who have lots of sexual experience over someone in their my mid 20s and a virgin. Is that true?

All of my friends have had sex and some with like 20 guys and they say that guys prefer girls like them who are experienced over a virgin like me. And that’s why they get so many guys wanting to have sex with them all the time

I haven’t had a boyfriend since im in med school now so im kind of concerned that I will never find someone if this is true. I was super sheltered growing up and never really cared about boys but this is disheartening becuase I thought most guys didn’t care if a girl was a virgin or not. Do most guys prefer girls who have more sexual experience? Is that why I hardly get guys interested in me?

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  • Don’t worry about what they’re saying. While it may be true that men like women who are experienced that’s usually for something like a one night stand, or maybe an friends with benefits situation. A majority of men, almost all are not going to take a girl seriously as far as dating, marriage, kids, etc. If she’s been passed around the block a time or two men know who to flock too cause chances are she’s an easy lay. I know this because I had gotten head once from a girl at my work on the first day I met her. Let her do it numerous times but when it was all said and done, I was done w her as well. She went on to blow someone else, to which this day she’s still single. There are some exceptions, but this is not usually the rule when it comes to men wanting to settle down w someone. Some men like virgins. Whether it’s because they want a girl who hasn’t been touched by any other man sexually, or for bragging rights. I still remember getting this girl to give me head, to swallow as well for the first time. After I went my own way she was well educated in being experienced w other men. I’m sure they’d thank me if they could lol I will say this though. Please don’t wait for a long time to meet someone. I know that is going to be hard w med school. But a lot of women go to school as yourself for professions like this that take about 10-12 years. Before they know it they’re in their late 20’s, early 30’s. Most men are going to want someone younger who is most fertile at a certain age to have children. I’m not saying it’s impossible to find someone at the ages I pointed out, it’s just harder, slimmer chance. Believe it or not men don’t really care about a woman’s career or how much money she makes. Why do you think a lot of women won’t date down, but men will even if she’s working at McDonalds making $15 an hour. It sucks cause it makes it sound as though you have to pick between a family, if that’s what you want one day and a career as a doctor. Again it’s not impossible, it’s just much harder. So many beautiful female doctors working where I work, a lot of them are single, not married. Just think about it.

    • Well the men most women want wouldn’t want a woman working at McDonald’s so no offense but I didn’t read the rest of your reply

    • Lol you know better than me. I’ve only been a man for 44 years so what do I know? Remember this when you’re 30 something. Good luck.

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  • How can anyone make generalizations like this? Everyone is different and everyone has different tastes.

    And also I feel you are generalizing about guys not being interested in you. You just need to find the right guy.

    And please don't worry about your virginity status. It really does not matter. A guy who is serious about you will take time to get to know you and he will like you for the things that make you uniquely special. Please don't put yourself down.

    I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who will like you. You just have to find them and vice versa.

    • Thanks yeah I didn’t think most guys cared so I was kind of surprised to hear that

    • Anytime. I'm sure you'll do fine, no worries there. Thanks for the MHO.

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  • Some guys feel that way, sure, but many men prefer the opposite, actually.

    Lots of guys don't want women that have slept with a lot of men, because it shows that they think about sex differently. Some people regard sex as something special, and meaningful, to be shared with as few partners as possible, in long term relationships. Those men would love a woman with less experience.

    Don't worry too much about what your friends think/say. They can be perfectly happy sleeping around, but may eventually find that they have a hard time landing a lengthy relationship down the line.

    • Well they’re great women so I don’t think they would have a hard time finding a relationship. If anything they have an easier time than someone like me but I still appreciate your response!

  • For a one night stand maybe, hos are clearly not a wife material, virgins are superior to hos.

    My friends say that guys prefer girls who have lots of sexual experience over someone in their my mid 20s and a virgin. Is that true?
  • So untrue. I'm 28 and still a V-card holder, so I have no shame 😈😈😈☮️☮️✌🏻

  • It totally depends on the guy. Your friends opinions don't matter. Don't give up your virginity until you're ready.

    • Yeah totally depends on the guy but I think what they’re saying is most guys prefer girls who are experienced but I thought most guys didn’t care. Like some prefer more experienced but the majority I thought don’t care if she has experience or not

    • My personal opinion, if I like the person it doesn't matter to me if they're a virgin or they've had 80 partners. If she's a virgin you You can teach her and give her pleasure she's never felt before. If she's experienced, maybe she's going to teach me a thing or two

    • Yeah exactly. Hopefully most men think like this when I do start dating

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  • Depends on the guy. If he’s a man whore. Yeah he’s attracted to other whores for sex.

    • Okay just because a woman has had sex doesn’t make them a whore so no need to name call

    • If it’s with her husband she’s not

    • If she’s had a lot of sex. She’s a whore. So are men like that. You asked the question so….

  • Good? I say most guys. Some prefer less touched women opposed to experienced. Its due to the latter knows more about how to please and she can move better. Men love women who can move their body. Think of how men like strippers. Its not that she's naked its how she moves. No experience? Learn how to dance! Take burlesque lesson or join a erotic dance class like the ones on YouTube! (Adison Briana)

  • I disagree. I think most guys would pick the virgin. I know I would.

    • I feel like most guys don’t care so that part was surprising. I don’t think most guys prefer Virgins or non virgins. I literally always thought most guys don’t have a preference

    • I prefer virgins because there is no risk of catching an STD and they are a clean slate to work with. I can train her in the things that I like.

  • I am glad my girlfriend was a virgin for the first time. Now I honestly don't care if I date a virgin or a nonvirgin.

  • Not necessarily. It depends on the couple.

  • No, everyone is different. That's bs

    • Thanks I just hope not all guys care that much

    • Don't worry about it. There are enough guys 😊

  • Depends on the guy

  • Your friends have slept with 20 guys. Your friends are whores.

    • No they aren’t. A whore is someone who has sex for money aka a prostitute. Just because they can get 20 guys doesn’t mean they have to be a prostitute.

  • experience matters.